Hey everyone my name is Kristen Upchurch and I have been close friends with April Ivey for about 14 years now. In case everyone hasn't heard the heart wrenching news Aprils'partner and father to her special needs son, Paul tragically passed away this week in their home. Making it even more heartbreaking April was the 1 to find him. Paul was a loving and present father to their son Castiel. As many may know Cas was born with down syndrome and the struggles and financial hardships have always been a reality for April and Paul. April is a devoted mental heath specialist/therapist who has always given everything she has not only to Cas but for her patients and her community. Paul's death not only has been earth shattering for April and Cas but it makes it even worse that it was a week before Christmas. I didn't get the opportunity to know Paul very well but I do know April well and this hurts me so bad to see her have to go through this because even if she helps other people with their mental health for a living it doesn't make it any less difficult especially given that it is her son's father and best friend. April is probably one of the most peaceful, kind and caring individuals I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. She is the most sensitive and nurturing person I have ever known and she has never known any other way. To say she is a dedicated mother to her son is the understatement of the year. She LIVES for her son and always makes sure he has the same opportunities that every other kid has. She is the most patient and understanding person and mom and this just feels so unfair to her and Castiel. Unfortunately April doesn't have a large support system so this must makes it.  even more difficult. I just wanted to try to help in anyway I possibly could given that I am no longer in the state of Louisiana. And I know that I'm not alone in my desire to  want to help because I have seen all the love she gets on social media. Accepting financial help during difficult times is never easy or comfortable and April expressed this to me. However the last thing her and Cas need to worry about is paying the mortgage or keeping the lights on or getting Cas the therapy he needs. Cas is such a blessing to April and Paul and if anyone deserves some help during this time it's them. Knowing just how sensitive April is I may not fully know but I have some understanding of the emotional toll this is going to have on her and Cas and I'm sure I'm not the only one that wishes I could take on even a fraction of that pain so that her and Cas don't have to. But the reality is that isn't possible. So instead I'm asking everyone to help me wrap April and Cas up in as much support and love as humanly possible. Even if it's a dollar or $2 everything helps and every contribution is hope for April and Cas to keep prevailing especially during the dark moments. I just know everyone that has ever met April will feel just as enthusiastic to help. If donating money isn't somethinv you can financially do right now that is completely fine! I know April will just be appreciative for any emotional support and love. Accepting financial help is a difficult and awkward thing but I am confident that her friends will want to help her in anyway possible. Thank you for you're love and support and don't forget to tell you're loved ones you love them this Holiday season ❤️Kristen Upchurch 



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