Hi, I’m Brianna. Five days ago I heard the words I never wanted to hear again: metastatic melanoma — this time in my gallbladder. I’m scared, I’m overwhelmed, and I’m also a mom who has to keep showing up for three amazing kids while I start the tests, scans, and appointments that will shape my treatment plan.

I’ve always prided myself on being strong and doing it all — working in hospitality, juggling schedules, paying bills, cooking dinner, showing up for friends and family. But right now, cancer is forcing me to slow down. I won’t be able to work for a bit while I heal from surgery and begin the next round of tests and treatment with my doctors at Hoag/UCI. That means no shifts, no tips, and no steady paycheck — all while the first of the month is here and regular life (rent, utilities, food, gas, kids’ needs) keeps moving.

I’m not asking for pity. I’m asking for a little lift so I can focus on healing and being present for my kids. Anxiety has me scatter‑brained, and even basic organizing feels like a mountain some days. If you can help — in any way — I’m grateful. If money isn’t possible, there are so many other ways to support us (meals, rides, quick check‑ins, even a walk together at the wetlands to clear my head).

I believe with everything in me that I’m going to beat cancer’s ass again. I also know it’s okay to say this feels different and it’s scary. Your love, prayers, and practical help make a real difference right now.

From my heart — thank you for reading, sharing, donating, cooking, texting, walking, praying… all of it. One step, one moment, one day at a time. Breathe. I’ve got this — and with your help, my kids and I will be okay.

With love and gratitude,

Bri❤️

How funds will be used (transparent & specific)

Housing & utilities: rent, power, water, internet (keeping home stable for the kids)

Groceries & household basics for the next few months

Medical costs: co‑pays, meds, imaging/tests, parking, incidental treatment costs

Transportation: gas and rides to appointments

Child needs: school lunches, small essentials during mom’s treatment days

Other ways to help (if you can’t or don’t want to give money)

Meals: home‑cooked drop‑offs or gift cards (grocery stores, local spots, DoorDash)

Rides: to/from Hoag or UCI appointments

Light organizing: paperwork/appointments, simple home tasks, “let’s make a list” sessions

Walks & morale boosts: quick calls/texts, short neighborhood walks, wetlands walks

Kid‑friendly help: snacks, school supply top‑ups, quick homework check‑ins

Share this page so it reaches the people who want to help but haven’t seen it

I’ll post updates here as I learn more about the treatment plan and how we’re doing. Thank you for standing with us — every bit of help (money, meals, rides, prayers, shares) makes a real difference. ❤️

I can also take Zelle or Venmo for those who asked & don’t want to pay the fees. 

If you’ve ever wondered whether small actions matter — they do. Thank you for helping me heal and keep life steady for my kids.