Felicia's Fight: Overcoming Health & Hardship

Hey all, my name is Felicia Tomolonis. This is really embarrassing, but on July 5th 2025 I was diagnosed with a concussion, which unfortunately has made my anxiety/depression/ptsd worse. It has also worsened the condition of my neck, causing more neck and nerve pain than ever before. Due to this, I’m currently out of work on short term disability. I hope to return asap and as soon as medically cleared, but with everything going on I don’t really know what else to do.

I’ve included some of the bills, medical documents, and the last paycheck statement I received. I can’t really afford my rent, let alone utilities, food, all of these appointments, medication, etc.

I would appreciate any and all help, though it’s really difficult for me to ask. At this point I just feel stuck, and please know that if you can’t afford to give, simply sharing my story or reading it is more than enough.

On imaging, an abdominal hernia was found that will need to be surgically repaired. It’s currently causing pain when I breathe, so working right now just seems impossible. I want to work and go back asap, because I truly can’t afford to not have help with only 60% of my earnings.

Thank you all for reading, and I’m so sorry for even needing to ask for help. I’ll also include some of the appointments and procedures I still need to do, my little money being used to get to and from appointments since my car died.

Additionally, and perhaps most embarrassingly, I recently got out of an abusive relationship/domestic abuse situation. He’s currently in prison so I’m safe, but I’ll include a small picture of some of the things he’s done.