Father's Stroke Recovery Fund
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On December 9th, 2018 my father had a stroke. It is a situation I never thought I would be in. My happy, energetic, extroverted father, was now laying in the hospital - bedridden. The severity of the situation did not hit me until 2 days after the incident when I realized this was not going to be quick a recovery. When my dad first looked at me, my entire world came crashing down. This was not my dad, his eyes were looking at a completely different world. Whenever I looked at my father I saw confidence and certainty, but now all I saw was emptiness. My father is the rock of our family, someone who we all rely on and look up to. Seeing him so weak and unable breaks my heart every time. All of his hard work and achievements completely useless due to his current condition.
Both of my parents came to America with limited resources, but with unlimited dreams. They came to America to begin a new life and to try to achieve the “American Dream.” Not only did they want to better their lives, but also for my younger sister and I to have more opportunities. My father worked multiple jobs while attending Bellevue Community College. He worked early mornings, attended school in the afternoons, and took ESL during the evenings. And yet still managed to earn all A’s. Since my sister and I were very young at the time, my mother had to stay home and take care of us, thus the more pressure on my father. No matter the obstacle he pushed through, eventually getting himself into the University of Washington and completing his Bachelor’s Degree in Accounting. After UW he got hired by multiple corporations, he ended up working for Intel Corporation as a financial analyst. In his mid-fifties, he went back to school to earn his Master’s in Business Administration, where he then began working at TE Connectivity Corporation as a Finance Manager. Looking back at my father’s journey, it gives me a sense of pride and encouragement. No matter what obstacle got in his way, my father overcame and conquered it. He had a family to support, an education to finish, and on top of that, he was learning a completely different language. Reflecting back to my life, I realize that I am very fortunate in all that I have in my life. He taught me to work hard because things in life don’t come easy. But he also showed me that after that long treacherous journey, the feeling of completion and success is like nothing you have experienced.
My dad’s stroke affected him severely. His stroke happened on his left side due to high blood pressure. He lost movement on his right side of the body and his speech got impaired. The stroke also affected parts of his memory. It feels unreal that all of my father’s achievements and hard work can so easily be destroyed.
My Dad is only 57, and he still has plans for the future. His retirement goal was to become a professor at his favorite University and teach students about what he loves doing every day. My dad is very passionate and driven in all that he does. He is strong and independent. He has never let an obstacle stop him from achieving his goals. I want my dad to get back to himself and continue to enjoy his life. My father has three daughters, grandkids, a loving wife, and an amazing group of friends. This is going to be a long and slow process, but I believe in my dad to push through it all.
My dad is the only one who was working in our family and paying all the bills and expenses. His recovery is a very costly journey that will continue on for many years. After discharge, he will be going to rehab to try to regain his lost abilities. We have many medical bills that will continue long after his discharge, including equipment for the house to help him move around and in/out home therapy. Any contribution will help. Small acts lead to big changes. We appreciate your help and support through these difficult times. Thank you.
Both of my parents came to America with limited resources, but with unlimited dreams. They came to America to begin a new life and to try to achieve the “American Dream.” Not only did they want to better their lives, but also for my younger sister and I to have more opportunities. My father worked multiple jobs while attending Bellevue Community College. He worked early mornings, attended school in the afternoons, and took ESL during the evenings. And yet still managed to earn all A’s. Since my sister and I were very young at the time, my mother had to stay home and take care of us, thus the more pressure on my father. No matter the obstacle he pushed through, eventually getting himself into the University of Washington and completing his Bachelor’s Degree in Accounting. After UW he got hired by multiple corporations, he ended up working for Intel Corporation as a financial analyst. In his mid-fifties, he went back to school to earn his Master’s in Business Administration, where he then began working at TE Connectivity Corporation as a Finance Manager. Looking back at my father’s journey, it gives me a sense of pride and encouragement. No matter what obstacle got in his way, my father overcame and conquered it. He had a family to support, an education to finish, and on top of that, he was learning a completely different language. Reflecting back to my life, I realize that I am very fortunate in all that I have in my life. He taught me to work hard because things in life don’t come easy. But he also showed me that after that long treacherous journey, the feeling of completion and success is like nothing you have experienced.
My dad’s stroke affected him severely. His stroke happened on his left side due to high blood pressure. He lost movement on his right side of the body and his speech got impaired. The stroke also affected parts of his memory. It feels unreal that all of my father’s achievements and hard work can so easily be destroyed.
My Dad is only 57, and he still has plans for the future. His retirement goal was to become a professor at his favorite University and teach students about what he loves doing every day. My dad is very passionate and driven in all that he does. He is strong and independent. He has never let an obstacle stop him from achieving his goals. I want my dad to get back to himself and continue to enjoy his life. My father has three daughters, grandkids, a loving wife, and an amazing group of friends. This is going to be a long and slow process, but I believe in my dad to push through it all.
My dad is the only one who was working in our family and paying all the bills and expenses. His recovery is a very costly journey that will continue on for many years. After discharge, he will be going to rehab to try to regain his lost abilities. We have many medical bills that will continue long after his discharge, including equipment for the house to help him move around and in/out home therapy. Any contribution will help. Small acts lead to big changes. We appreciate your help and support through these difficult times. Thank you.
Organizer
Michelle Alekperov
Organizer
Hillsboro, OR