Funeral Expenses for father of 8

My dad was misdiagnosed by UVA and being treated for a slipped disk just to find from Martha Jefferson he has stage 4 throat cancer that has spread throughout his entire body. Treatments are no longer working and he is now home to be "comfortable" anything that is donated will go towards medical expenses and when the time comes funeral expenses. My mom cannot work full time due to my younger siblings there are 8 of us ranging from ages 23 through 4years old.! Please help my family! Anything and everything helps.!! Thank you.