I need your help. For the past year and half I've been with my partner falling in love, getting engaged, and moving in to her family home to blend our two small families. Unfortunately this pressure cooker of a timeline and some underlying, unattended personal issues have led to the end of time together. She is moving out of the house that we have shared. It was her grandparent's house and is now owned by her uncle and aunt. I won't be able to stay here and don't think I could heal completely in this setting. So I find myself in the very unexpected and inconvenient place of having to move to a new home. Fortunately, I am still employed and will be able to meet rent going forward with my small salary, after the move, for a home that fits our needs, but do not have the funds for a deposit or the additional first months rent while paying rent here while I look. We have spent all our extra money fixing the home and surviving this SIP. I have no savings or credit. My family can't help as they do not have the means. I have to humble myself and ask for your help. This is one of the hardest moments I have endured and need support (all kinds) from my community of friends. This request for help is difficult to make as I'm swallowing my pride and admitting I can't recover on my own. I never dreamed I would be in this situation.

There are several properties that are in my range and meet our needs, but I don't have the money to secure them for the move.  The $5000 covers the large deposits and a month of rent. I can gladly provide details if you need it to feel comfortable donating to us.

If you want to offer emotional support I will gladly take that as well.