Today is a very sad day for my best friend and her family!  She lost her brother today.  We do not know yet exactly what happened.  All we know is that he is gone way too soon.  Jay leaves behind a loving wife and 3 beautiful young children.  Jay was the sole provider for his stay at home wife and children.  I am asking for anything you all can do to help, for he had no insurance!  The funeral will be costly along with living expenses while they grieve until lysa can find a job as she was a stay at home mom and they were completely blind sided by this.  And so close to the holiday's, I wouldn't wish this on anyone.  We will also be trying to form a benefit but that will take some time to do so.  In the mean time anything small or big will be a huge help!!