We had not intended to ask for help. It's just not our way. But many people have requested a way to donate. Darrell did not have a burial or life insurance policy and his final expenses will be out of pocket for his family.  He has piles of unopened medical bills. Unopened because he knew he could not pay them. Do not feel obligated to donate. He would not want that. But if you would like to, you may do so. He requested to be cremated and we intend to follow his wishes.