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BIG NEWS + I NEED YOUR HELP!
Hey friends! After years of waiting, my top surgery is finally within reach, but I’ve hit an unexpected financial hurdle and need your support.
The Situation
After years of waiting, research, and appointments, my top surgery is finally scheduled. But as of January 1st, the clinic no longer accepts my insurance. I had to pay out of pocket for the consult, and the surgery will cost $4,000.
It’s a smaller, focused procedure under local anesthesia with a quick recovery, directly addressing my biggest dysphoria. After a tough year recovering from carpal tunnel surgeries, with medical bills piling up, I’m struggling financially.
This surgery is so important to me, but it feels impossible to make happen alone.
✨ What This Surgery Means to Me
For years, I’ve felt like a stranger in my body. While others celebrated stepping into “womanhood,” I felt lost and out of place. Nothing about that word felt natural to me. I dealt with anxiety, self-harm, depression fulled by self-hatred, unable to accept myself. From a young age, I began binding, long before I even knew what that word meant. I just knew that what was growing didn’t belong to me.
This surgery isn’t about changing who I am, it’s about aligning my body with who I’ve always been. It’s the final step in a journey I’ve fought so hard for, and I’m ready to feel at home in myself for the first time. And that time is now.
How You Can Help
I need to raise $4,000 by February to make this surgery happen.
1️⃣ Book a Service:
I’m offering dog grooming, organizing, cleaning, and small fixes to fundraise.
Book with Murphy at South Kirkwood online here https://treats-unleashed.com/grooming?srsltid=AfmBOoqUCYybXMLHB3M1mOiP8xy2nncD4o1InDO6kBok9phpY4jeE2q4
Follow My Dog Grooming Account: https://www.instagram.com/pawsbymurphy/profilecard/?igsh=OWxsNjJyaXB1c2hy
2️⃣ Donate Directly:
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3️⃣ Share This Post:
Even if you can’t donate, sharing this with your community means the world to me.
Your support- whether it’s a donation, a share, or just kind words, means everything to me. Thank you for being part of this journey and helping me take this final step toward becoming fully myself.
Organizer and beneficiary
Murphy Oakin
Beneficiary

