I'm the primary income of both of my partners and myself, especially once we move. Currently, we have family who we can rely on, but different problems with each.

My family-republicans.

I save aggressively, more than a third of my paycheck. I leach everything I can off my family for whatever I can. My family sucks, and while I seem presently safe, my situation here decays every day.

I am constantly deadnamed, mocked for taking Estrogen, and stuck with family convinced me being trans is because my "boyfriend" groomed me. Both my partners are trans fems, and my family does not know I am poly, but do know about one of my partners.

They firmly believe I am cutting them off due to a singular issue of political belief(Scaring, banning my partner from their place, and misgendering her. Given said partner is far more forgiving than me, even she admits its bad.). Yes, I have had me painting my nails compared to me being in a suicide cult, and me dating a trans fem has been compared to me fucking a monkey. No, I don't know how those conclusions are reached.

My goal(s) are simple. Graduate(They are begrudgingly paying for my college), move out, bottom surgery.

I am saving money for a house downpayment as a stretch goal, but realism says I will need an apartment. At present, I do not make enough for that to be sustainable. This seems unlikely to change.

I am hoping to move out come Aprilish of this year(Give or take a couple months).

I will likely need a new car given mine is going to fail, even assuming my family lets me keep it.

I would also like to save for bottom surgery, frankly more to help one of my partners who wants it get it, even long before I get any bottom surgery.

I have already started selling off many of my favorite belongings, and need to double down upon this course. Given I am entirely banking on partners making way more, or a massive raise at work, having any increase in funds for downpayment or bufferage is kinda critical.