Hi there and thank you for visiting.

I’m a Disabled Queer Autistic Woman battling multiple ((extremely painful)) chronic illnesses. Hypermobile Ehlers Danlos Syndrome, Degenerative Disc Disease, Rheumatoid Arthritis to name a few. I am mostly bedbound and am greatly struggling to navigate a life altering challenge. I could use all the help I can get. I don't have family support and my love/best friend/caretaker for nearly 16 years has withdrawn most financial support for things like supplements and medications and tells me to move out multiple times a week. I need to get out of here. It is unbearable living somewhere you are not wanted.

Unfortunately, I can't go to a shelter or group home because I'm severely high risk and cannot get COVID again or risk getting RSV or any other nasty things out there. I am still recovering from something I got the end of October that caused me to cough up blood for an entire day. I'm struggling to find any affordable housing. There aren't many waitlists open and the ones that are, take years to get into a place, if at all.

This is leaving me in a very difficult situation because the $1,000/month that I'm given for disability from the government is not enough to cover the cost of housing, utilities, caring for my two elderly dachshunds and the extra medical expenses that come with being disabled.

If Palimony or Common Law Marriage were applicable in this state...he would owe me at least 1k a month which would greatly help, however he is unwilling to help out financially after all these years. After his family took me in, in full force because I'm estranged from my family. I need to get out and find housing ...but I have no in person support at this point.

This is a very minimum goal to help me with housing to give me time to wait for housing vouchers/whatever housing programs I can find. I have no idea how much utilities will cost, or where I can find to live.

Any extra funds after I find housing and get my budget situated, will be paid forward to other mutual aid. I am so incredibly grateful for any assistance you can provide, as this transition is a daunting challenge for me, as I aim to regain my independence, safety and self-sufficiency.

Thank you for stopping by and supporting me on this journey. If you can't contribute financially, that's okay! Please don't feel bad. Times are rough right now, every contribution, whether it's $1 or $0.25...means the world to me. Shares are also an incredible way to help me meet my goal that don't cost a thing.