My name is Deirdre, and I am preparing for a major milestone in my journey: gender affirming bottom surgery (vaginoplasty) scheduled for December 22, 2025. This is the final and most significant step in my medical transition, and it means the world to me. I am so close to feeling at peace in my body and truly seeing myself reflected inside and out. This surgery is the last big piece in helping me feel whole and comfortable as the woman I am.

I will need to take six weeks off work to recover, and unfortunately, I will not be receiving paid leave during this time. My wife will be with me for the first two weeks, and a friend will help me on the first day after surgery, but after that, I will be home alone while my wife works. We are relying solely on her income, which is not enough to cover all our living expenses, especially since we usually depend on both our incomes. I will also need to pay back my health benefit premium after I return to work, and there may be unforeseen expenses if any complications arise during recovery. I expect to have minor mobility issues for the first few weeks, and I would like to compensate my friend for their support as well.

Your support will help cover our living expenses, health benefit premiums, and any unexpected costs that may come up during my recovery. Every contribution, no matter the size, will make a meaningful difference in helping me heal and move forward with confidence. Thank you for being part of this important moment in my life.