Dee Lontok's cremation & memorials fund

Dee's journey here is finally over. I was blessed and honored to have spent the last 27 of her 80 years happily married to her. It was a marriage of love, joy, pain, loss, smiles, fun but mostly love.  Along the way of our 27 years together, we amassed an amazing catalog of friends, family and friends who became family.  Many of these amazing friends have reached out to me not long after I inquired about the costs for cremation. On top of the costs for cremation, I plan on holding two memorials for Dee, one formal, and the other much less so. These memorials will not be held until social restrictions have lessened enough to allow a large group of people to assemble and properly pay homage and honor to a wonderful lady.  The cremation will happen first and then I will keep her ashes in an urn until after the memorials.  Any help you can provide in this effort would be greatly appreciated.


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Robert Lontok 
Virginia Beach, VA
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