Please help with my moms funeral expenses

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Please help with my moms funeral expenses

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Hi, my name is Amanda, and I'm fundraising for my mom, Debra Mills. In August, my mom wasn't feeling well, and she went to the doctor suspecting that she could have pneumonia. At that time, a chest X-ray was ordered, which revealed a large mass in her lung. A CT scan was ordered to follow up on her X-ray, and it showed the large mass not only in her lung but also on her liver, both adrenal glands, and her lymph nodes. She underwent all the necessary tests, and it was determined that she had cancer.

My mom had a scheduled biopsy last Thursday to determine the type of cancer, but due to the tumor pushing on her bronchial tube, her lungs couldn't expand properly. As a result, she couldn't be put to sleep for the biopsy and had to endure the pain. She had been experiencing chest pain before the procedure, but the healthcare provider disregarded it. That night, she was sent home, barely able to transfer or hold her head up.

On Friday, 9/29/2023, my mom had to be rushed to the hospital by ambulance because she was unresponsive and in severe pain. It was determined that the biopsy had caused her to have a massive heart attack. She underwent many tests, and on Monday morning, our lives took a dramatic turn. She was officially diagnosed with metastatic squamous cell carcinoma, and hospice needed to be called. My mom was not stable enough to go home, so the hospital kept her admitted and hospice put her under comfort care. That day, she started to hallucinate and talk about things that weren't happening. By Tuesday morning, she wasn't waking up, and her breaths became fewer and shallower each day. On Thursday, my mom passed away suddenly in the comfort of her family at 1:39 pm.

My mom had a small insurance policy, but it's not enough to cover the costs of a proper funeral. We are humbly asking for help to give her a proper burial and to assist my dad with any other expenses that may arise.


ABOUT MY MOM:

My mom was a remarkable woman who left an indelible mark on those who were fortunate to know her. She possessed a unique blend of humor, quick wit, and a jokester's personality that could light up any room. Her infectious laughter was a source of joy for everyone around her, and her generous heart was always open to those in need.

Prior to her health declining, she dedicated her time and energy to volunteering with her church, embodying her deeply spiritual nature. Her faith played a significant role in her life, and she shared her spirituality with others, offering guidance and comfort whenever it was needed.

Family was at the center of her world, and she loved her grandkids with a passion that knew no bounds. My mom had the wonderful ability to spoil them without an ounce of guilt, creating cherished memories that will be treasured for generations to come. She was undeniably family-oriented, yet she also had a compassionate and giving side that extended to helping others in need whenever she could.

One of her distinctive traits was her adaptability, which allowed her to thrive in any environment. Whether it was a bustling family gathering or a quiet moment of reflection, my mom had the remarkable ability to make those around her feel comfortable and at ease.

Lastly, her love for tie-dye was legendary and could rival that of an entire generation of rebellious youth. Her vibrant and colorful fashion choices reflected her vibrant personality and zest for life. In many ways, her tie-dye passion became a symbol of her free-spirited and joyful approach to life.

Debra Mills was a woman of many wonderful qualities, and her memory will continue to shine brightly in the hearts of all who knew her.


THANK YOU:

Your love, support and generosity means more than my family can put into words right now.

Organizer and beneficiary

Amanda Long
Organizer
Seaford, DE

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