
Nancy Burial Expenses
Donation protected
Most of you know my step mom , Catherine's mom, has spent the last several years fighting Polycystic kidney disease . (PKD) is an inherited kidney disorder. It causes fluid-filled cysts to form in the kidneys. PKD may impair kidney function and cause kidney failure. Which hers did , she was on dialysis since I can remember it feels like, idk 10 years maybe. Anyway, her health started to decline and my sister and her bf Glen finally got her to the hospital. It was there we found out Nancy's (I THINK. don't judge it's 3:15 am and its been a rough one) Right ventricle colapsed in her heart. She had an emergeny procedure to have a balloon inserted in the ventricle. They told us we would probably have up to 6 with her. Of course the whole time Nancy was in the hospital she insisted on going on home. Lol she was so stubburn, There is a lot more sad stuff that happened that I just do no want to go into. You can always ask me or my dad for the whole story later on. I don't mind, just don't want to do it now. I can say we where all shocked when we got the call today. We all thought we where going to have at least a couple of months with her. Despite her physical apperance, her apparent weakness and confussion, we all where clinging to hope. She had walked away so many times before...and sounded like Nancy again even this morning. Now I need to ask for help, I HATE asking for help, so please know it is necessary for me to at least ask. My sister and I agreed to follow Nancy's wishes of being cremated and spread in the mountains, she brought up rampart to my sister, to all my old friends out there, should make you smile... Nancy did not have life insurance. She was on Medicaid and disability . I myself just started a job last week and my sister is currently unemployed. All my old friends, the ones who basically lived at my dad's house with Nancy, Cat and I.. Please help me put my step mom to rest.Help me give Nancy the resting place she wanted in the mountains. Please at least help me , help my sister get some closure. Even $1, $5, or $10 will help ! Family. I know many of you have not actually seen us in years. But we are still family , right?I know Nancy has asked about all of you when you where added to my facebook. I don't know the whole story of our past, nor do I care, Catherine doesn't either. We know you are stuck with the same male genes or something along those lines, as we are! I need to get to $1,200 or as close to that as possible. I am sure Nancy's, sister Ellen will help, but she can't take it all on herself. And everyone who knows my dad, knows he is broke ( it's ok to laugh here, he is free game right now, he agreed to it <3) This is the second time in a year I am having to ask for your help do to the death of a family member. I honestly hope we can reach this goal, even if you cannot donate . PLEASE PLEASE check my page the next couple of days for her services..... One way or another. We will have them. Thank you all for your kind words. I read them all to my sister on our drive home from seeing Nancy. I know it helps for her to see how many are mourning our loss of Nancy Ann Becker. Mother, Stepmom, Sister, Girlfriend, Friend to every soul she ever met, literally made friends everywhere. Life will not be the same without you in it. Please watch over us , especially Cat, and help us live the life you would want us to live. May your passing bring old, old friends, and a long seperated family back together. Let it at least signify the begging of something good. Amen.
Thanks guys
Remember please the silly Nancy , that like rum and coke and always enjoyed ALL my friends and every member of our family. The same goes for me, thank you for at least reading this.
Best Regards.
Jessica Becker
Step daughter since 1984
Thanks guys
Remember please the silly Nancy , that like rum and coke and always enjoyed ALL my friends and every member of our family. The same goes for me, thank you for at least reading this.
Best Regards.
Jessica Becker
Step daughter since 1984
Organizer and beneficiary
Jessica Becker
Organizer
Littleton, CO
LeEllon Baughman
Beneficiary