Darita Atkins stroup and grandkids

3 weeks ago we found out my grandmother had cancer in her lungs and it spread tumors to her brain and liver. The doctors told us the best thing we could do for her was take her home and have hospice come in because it was just too far gone, and keep her comfortable and with family for the rest of her time. They gave us 2 to 3 months with her but she passed on 7-15-19 at 805 pm. She was taking care of her 3 grandsons at the time and has since there father passed away in 2016. Everyone that grew up with her around called her mom and she always did everything she could for her family and anyone else she was around. This has by far been the hardest thing for our family to watch and go through. She wanted to be cremated and put on a shelf with her husband. I'm asking for help with that and some more to help get my three brothers settled in Virginia with me because I still have a couple years left in the navy.  Thank you for any help with these 2 things. And God bless.