To help filter out the toxins, my dad has just started dialysis. Although it is a very common and vital procedure for those with CKD, living with this condition heavily impacts his quality of life, as well as his independence. Dialysis requires patients to spend up to 12 hours a week at the hospital so that a machine can manually do the things a normal kidney is meant to do on its own. Committing to a rigid dialysis schedule does not give my dad the freedom to do the things he enjoys, including going to work to support our family, exercising, and spending quality time with our family and friends. He must also adjust to a strict diet to keep his kidneys from deteriorating any further. Also, because we need to maintain a clean and sterile environment to avoid the chance of infection, we have to give away our family dog, Drizzy.
The ultimate goal is to save enough money to be able to pay for a kidney transplant for my dad. The average wait time for a kidney donor in the United States is 10 years because there are way more patients in need of a new kidney than there are donors. Going through an invasive transplant like this is more successful the younger the patient is; sooner is better than later, especially because of the current and failing state of my dad’s kidneys. However, we are hoping to send him to St. Luke’s Medical Center in the Philippines because there are more donors than patients in need of organs. So there is a much shorter waiting period for those in need of a new kidney; instead of waiting years for a donor, the process may only take a couple of months. The funds we hope to raise in the next few months will cover the cost of the transplant and surgery for my dad and the donor, as well as cost for travel, food, accommodations, expensive medicines and recovery.
My little sister, Lauren, and I, hope to be able to create more memories and pass milestones while our dad is still with us. Anything helps, and can progress us towards prolonging the time we have to spend with our dad.
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Danilo Mendoza 2683 Ramsdell Place San Jose, CA 95148
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