Cremation and memorial for my son

Hi my name is Crystal. On September 16 at midnight the state police arrived to inform me my son, Gabriel Whitesell 18, was in a car accident and as a result passed away. He will be cremated and I would like to have a memorial for him Oct 23 in honor of his 19th bday. Any financial help is more than appreciated. Everyone has asked what they can do for me. Short of returning my baby boy to me this is all I need. Thank you all for your kindness and support.