Pam (Jones) Draughan Memorial

I never knew pain like I have the last 16 hours... a phone call from your sobbing brother who barely gets out the words "mom is gone" is something out of a nightmare and my reaction was heard by neighbors... Loosing ones mother is something I wish on no one.  It is an aching pain straight to the core of ones exsistance and I'm not sure if the tears will ever stop...

My two siblings and I tragically lost our mother yesterday evening and we are all devastated, I as the oldest of 3 kids at 29 (my brother is 25 and my siser is 20)

am trying to stay strong in order to organize a funural and burial for our beautiful mother who made, gave birth to, and showered us with love all the years of her life.

Our mother was disabled from a car accident years ago that caused major nerve damage in her body and she suffered from major heart disease... She lived off of disability for these reasons and left this world way too ealry at 50 years young, and unfortunatly  my siblings and I have no money to pay for all the costs associated with her sudden death.  We would greatly appreciate any donation possible, big or small, because every little bit will help!

I am trying to stay strong for my brothr and sister and because I know mom would have wanted me too and with such a sudden, tragic and devastating thing to happen in our family...any family... so many things must be done. I ask all to pray for us, and if possible donate so that we can put our mother to rest the way she deserves.



Life is short and not guaranteed, hold those you love close and tell them what they mean to you...don't let yourself get too busy...because there are no take backs in life... We have one chance to love those around us so make it count! 

We love you momma, to the moon and back and together we will heal; just watch over us from up above please because we still need you.

Love Desirae, Dale and Savannah
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    • 50 $ 
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    • 25 $ 
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    • 20 $ 
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    • 20 $ 
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Organizer

Desirae Draughan 
Organizer
Durham, NC
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