Celebration of life for T.J. - Thomas Jason Neff

My name is Heather Daniels and I am T.J.'s sister. I'm fundraising so we can get financial help with unexpected costs & to hold a great memorial service for him.

T.J. was very special to many people.

T.J. tragically passed away on Dec 21, 2023 at his home in Yuma, AZ. He passed away from alcohol induced Diabetic Keto Acidosis which led to a stroke.

In his short 42 years of life he did and saw more than most people would in two lifetimes. He was well traveled and loved to learn other languages, etc.... A charmer.

T.J. was the most generous, courageous, upbeat go-getter that we've ever known. He was the best big brother, an amazing son, a wonderful uncle and a very loyal friend to sooo many!!! He could truly do anything he set his mind to.

If you told T.J. that he CAN'T do something.. he will find a way to do it.

T.J. was very headstrong and had a humongous heart. He's a passionate problem solver who wanted to change the world and make a difference. T.J. always believed that he was invincible and he sure did live like there was no tomorrow! He loved playing any competitive sport or game: from cards to softball & much more. He was a football fanatic! His favorite team was the Chargers!

He loved his dog Alf more than anything in the world! Alf was considered to be his furry child.. along with his cat named Indy.

T.J. is survived by his mother Myrna Anderson, his sister Heather Daniels, his father Thomas E. Neff, his stepmother Angie Neff, his sister Leatha King, his sister Paula Neff & his former wife Shannon Akins Neff.

Our family has endured a lot of tragic death this year including T.J.'s step-father Richard 6 months ago. This has been beyond hard to accept that he's not here.

Please keep T.J.s family & all his loved ones in your prayers to be able to find some peace during this difficult time.

Any donations would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for all your love and support. I know how much T.J. LOVED all of you.

We are planning 2 memorial services:

Yuma, AZ memorial is Feb 1, 2024

First Christian Church

Fullerton, CA memorial is Feb 3, 2024.

Casa De Bonita