In Loving Memory of My Dad, Donavan Bates (Burketh): A Story of Love, Laughter, and Unbreakable Spirit
My dad, Donavan, was the kind of person who left a mark on every life he touched. He wasn’t famous or wealthy, but he carried a wealth of love, wisdom, humor and generosity that rippled through our family and community. He believed that the simplest acts of kindness could light up the darkest days, and he showed this in every laugh, every phone call, and every late-night conversation.
When life threw challenges our way, he faced them with quiet courage and an unwavering optimism that felt like a lighthouse on a foggy night. He never wanted anyone to worry about him. He taught us to be brave, to persevere, and to never take a single moment for granted.
We are so heartbroken to share that my dad, Donavan recently passed way. My Dad believed he could save the world, so he tried helping everyone he came in contact with. Except this last person assaulted him and as a result he’s no longer here. Our hearts are full of memories but also the practical burden of funeral arrangements. The financial strain of saying goodbye in a way that honors his legacy is overwhelming, and that’s why we’re turning to our community for help.
Our goal is to give my Dad a funeral that reflects the life he lived: simple, dignified, and full of love. We want to celebrate his kindness, his infectious laughter, and the countless ways he touched lives—whether it was through a comforting word, a helping hand, or a listening ear.
How you can help
Every contribution will go toward funeral and burial expenses, including service costs, transportation, and a small memorial gathering for family and friends, and remainder will go to his only surviving daughter. Cash App: $Jhae1234
If you’re unable to donate, sharing this page with others who knew Dad would mean the world to us.
What your support will mean
Peace of mind knowing Dad’s farewell matches the life he led: full of grace, generosity, and gratitude.
A chance for family and friends to come together to celebrate a life well-loved, and to begin the healing journey surrounded by those who cared for him.
From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for keeping our family in your thoughts during this difficult time. Your kindness, prayers, and support are a beacon of light that helps us navigate this profound loss. Dad would be the first to tell you that love is meant to be shared, and today that love is being shared with us through you.
With gratitude,
An'Jhae and Family