Breast Cancer does not care how old you are. Sometimes you can see it, sometimes you can't.
My name is Jamie (Dean) Delaney, I am 39 years old. I am the mother of an awesome 19 year old daughter who is in her second year of college. I am expecting my second child, a boy, in April. About 4 months ago, I asked my OBGYN about a lump I noticed developing on my chest. She quickly recommended an ultrasound and then a biopsy. In late October I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I was dumbfounded! It had not occurred to me that the lump which had just appeared a few months earlier was dangerous. I was equally surprised that my pregnancy was excellerating its growth. Treatment began immediately . In just a matter of weeks, I had met with several specialists, in order to determine a plan of action. I had to decide whether to have a lumpectomy, mastectomy, double mastectomy and if I would consider terminating my pregnancy to reduce my complications. My appointments went from 2 every 4 weeks to up to 3 per day twice a week. I barely had time to think, but with the help of family and friends I proceeded with a mastectomy on Nov 24th.
It reduced my chemo/ radiation schedule and will allow me be able to care for my son. I believe I have made the right decisions though cancer treatments while pregnant have been incredibly difficult. Most days I am exhausted. I am constantly being tested and injected. I worry about my baby constantly and pray he will not be effected by the chemotherapy. I have lost my hair, I have a multitude of scars from the surgeries, and have depleted my savings.
This has been the longest I have ever had to function without working. It has been incredible how Grace has provided for me. I have been able to focus on my health and had to ask for very little. But I still have medical and living expenses impending, I will be continuing with chemotherapy till July of this year. I still have 2 surgeries ahead of me. When I am allowed to return to work, it will only be part time. I am hoping to worry less about my bills and the needs of my children. So far my baby is doing awesome! ⬇️⬇️⬇️
The support and outpour of love I have received has been so overwhelming . Even if you are not able to financially assist me, I could never express how important reading my story is. Please ask the women in your life to schedule regular mammograms, no matter their age. I wish you a worry free 2016! All my love, JD
My name is Jamie (Dean) Delaney, I am 39 years old. I am the mother of an awesome 19 year old daughter who is in her second year of college. I am expecting my second child, a boy, in April. About 4 months ago, I asked my OBGYN about a lump I noticed developing on my chest. She quickly recommended an ultrasound and then a biopsy. In late October I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I was dumbfounded! It had not occurred to me that the lump which had just appeared a few months earlier was dangerous. I was equally surprised that my pregnancy was excellerating its growth. Treatment began immediately . In just a matter of weeks, I had met with several specialists, in order to determine a plan of action. I had to decide whether to have a lumpectomy, mastectomy, double mastectomy and if I would consider terminating my pregnancy to reduce my complications. My appointments went from 2 every 4 weeks to up to 3 per day twice a week. I barely had time to think, but with the help of family and friends I proceeded with a mastectomy on Nov 24th.
It reduced my chemo/ radiation schedule and will allow me be able to care for my son. I believe I have made the right decisions though cancer treatments while pregnant have been incredibly difficult. Most days I am exhausted. I am constantly being tested and injected. I worry about my baby constantly and pray he will not be effected by the chemotherapy. I have lost my hair, I have a multitude of scars from the surgeries, and have depleted my savings. This has been the longest I have ever had to function without working. It has been incredible how Grace has provided for me. I have been able to focus on my health and had to ask for very little. But I still have medical and living expenses impending, I will be continuing with chemotherapy till July of this year. I still have 2 surgeries ahead of me. When I am allowed to return to work, it will only be part time. I am hoping to worry less about my bills and the needs of my children. So far my baby is doing awesome! ⬇️⬇️⬇️
The support and outpour of love I have received has been so overwhelming . Even if you are not able to financially assist me, I could never express how important reading my story is. Please ask the women in your life to schedule regular mammograms, no matter their age. I wish you a worry free 2016! All my love, JD