Book "Free To Be You"

So many of you have requested, almost demanded I write this book and I’m finally ready. So, come cuddle up with me and we will take a personal journey through an impressive set of life rules that will change the way you relate with yourself and others, forever. This book, and its release is going to be our biggest event to date!
Before I get too much into what the book will be about, I want to thank all of you for your unwavering support and for the motivation I’ve received from so many of you who believe in me. This is not just my celebration, it’s our celebration!
I look forward to connecting and sharing with you on a personal level what has been brewing for such a long time. The book itself is well on its way, I’ve already written the first five chapters and have reached out to editors to help me fine tune the work. I’m making myself available to writing and plan to have it complete by end of this year.
As always, I want to share these teachings with everyone, so I’m planning a cross-country book launch tour in all my favorite cities that have supported me on finding my path. Catch me in Chicago, Asheville, San Diego, Toronto, Washington DC, Phoenix, San Francisco, Calgary, and New York! Maybe even Saint George and Salt Lake City too.
Will you join me on this journey of enriched, playful discovery? In 2005, I was the wife of a doting husband, mother of three beautiful sons, we had a home and what many would consider a dream life. I had everything I thought I wanted and everything I thought was appropriate to achieve my dreams. Yes, I had it all ...and I was miserable.

Today, I have entire communities of beloved friends and lovers in nine different cities in two countries! I teach workshops devoted to the concept of asking for all that you want. I teach women to reclaim their voice, men to rekindle their confidence and couples to reignite their passion. I went from living the American Dream to waking up to the life of my dreams.

How did this happen? How did I go from monogamous, Mormon and ‘normal’ to being in an open marriage and having an open-hearted view to relating and relationships? The moment I first became aware that it was ok to stop conforming to another’s ideals was the day I learned “the rules of Cuddle Party.”
I'm giving a sneak peak of my book on for you to share with anyone you feel can benefit from learning what it's like to walk in freedom. I’m inviting you to support my quest to bring this wisdom to the people and I’ve created tributes I hope you’ll find exciting and tempting - check them out below!
But First! I am really serious about this being our celebration. I want to hear your cuddle party stories, ways in which Cuddle Party has changed your lives. Send them to me and as I am writing I will select three of them (or more) to include in this book.
Here are some other ways you can contribute.

$5 - Receive autographed copy of The Table of Contents

$10 - Audio Recording - put your headphones on and listen in as I read Chapter 1

ALL TRIBUTES ABOVE $20 receive and autographed copy of “All I Really Need to Know I Learned at Cuddle Party.”

$20 - Autographed copy of “Free To Be: All I Need to Know I Learned at Cuddle Party”

$30 - Autographed copy of book & Nathan Darling’s Facebook Wit and Wisdom (a collection of his best Facebook one-liner posts)
“There is a subtle, and yet profound difference between not WANTING something and NOT wanting something.“
“I always find my way BECAUSE I am not afraid to get lost”

$50 - An event ticket to the book launch in your city. OR a teleconference recording in or near your city

$100 - An event ticket to the Book Launch and Your Name in my Thank You section of the book

$250 - VIP event ticket to a private party: includes a reading, Q+A and dinner. (50 tix/city) OR a Skype phone session

$500 - An annual pass to all of my non-collaborative events in 2015 OR A free in person Session sometime in 2015 OR 2 Skype Sessions

$1,000 - a Private Exclusive Overnight Cuddle Party for you and one other person. Available only in a city listed on the book tour and during the tour dates OR A couples counseling session OR 4 Skype Sessions

$3,000 - I will come to your city (offer good within US and Canada only) and offer an Exclusive Overnight Official Cuddle Party for you and (10) of your friends. Each attendant will receive an autographed copy of book.

Estimated costs for the book, editors and the book launch tour is $30K ! With your generous support - I can do this - for us! Thank you so very much!!

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