My name is Kay and I’m desperately needing help.
Let me give a little insight and understanding to why I’m pleading for help.
I’m currently going through a dangerous traumatic divorce making me a newly single mom after 13 years. We just lost our home back in March of 2024 to foreclosure while struggling with mental health illness taking any sense of stability and comfort we had. Forcing my kids and I to move many times for brief periods back and forth between friends and family.
I later lost my job in April 2025 after 10 years of employment while having to focus on getting control with my mental illness and emotional struggles.
Meanwhile, our only car was repossessed due to no longer having a consistent income and ability to pay the expected monthly payments.
Just recently, over the summer I needed medical assistance and went to the ER with excruciating pain caused by a previously recalled medical device(Essure Coils) and overall procedure which has been slowly worsened and additional severe health issues over the years. The ER ran their standard tests and received several concerning results.
Ultimately additional extensive test were ran that revealed I had developed a large rapid growing tumor in my uterus and is believed to be a huge contributor to the intense pain I was frequently having.
My results also reflected concerns with liver functionality that indicated low insulin production now classifying me at pre-diabetic risk.
Additional results continued to show current levels reflecting kidney disease but required further specific testing for final diagnosis.
Finally, my results reflected numerous deficiencies in my blood panel regarding a low white cell count indicating anemia and red cell deficiency carrying abnormally low hemoglobin.
The ER sent an urgent biopsy referral to the appropriate dept for further determine and treatment with expectations of having to also get a hysterectomy.
I’ve started patient enrollment at Stanford Medical located about 2.5 hours away in the Bay Area known for exception reputation and experience with cancer research and treatment. I’m currently waiting for my medical insurance transfer and my doctor’s referral to finishing processing and approval to officially start immediate recommended treatment.
Over the years I’ve been struggling with slow progressive unbearable pain that’s began interfering with simple daily tasks forcing me to seek medical assistance regularly.
No longer having the dependability of my own vehicle or steady reoccurring income. I’ve been relying on county assistance making it near impossible to save enough funds towards purchasing another car in time for critical upcoming appointments. Simple expectation and time sensitive obligations are now stressful and extremely difficult trying to manage and achieve.
Ultimately forcing me to rely and burden others for help attending crucial appointments 2+ hours away in the Bay Area to common unexpected emergencies occasionally needing rides for my kids to or from school when missing their bus. This unfortunately isn’t always reliable option due to having very few trustworthy friends and family I can seek help from.
All of these factors make time crucial obligations difficult and extremely overwhelming to manage while also maintaining progression dealing with my mental health.
I take care of my 16-year-old son and 11-year-old daughter who are the two most important people in my life. They have been through so much stress and major life changing events in such a short time simultaneously making sure to keep up with school expectations staying positive and hopeful. I avoid bringing a lot of focus or concern to my immediate health concerns trying avoid additional stress and uncertainty to their lives while adjusting to our new life dynamics.
All of our sentimental belongings and possessions that we have left were saved in a storage unit right before our home foreclosure finalized and ultimately was auctioned off. Again, due to my limited transportation and limited financial circumstances I have fallen dangerously behind on the month payments.
The storage facility is demanding the full $1500 past due fees paid by the 28th of Nov to avoid loosing everything in auction. Our unit is located about an hour and a half from where we live now in El dorado county all the way in Roseville Ca. Unfortunately, only to circle me back to my repetitive transportation dilemma that truly deserves sole credit of the inability to achieve success and maintain consistency to the immediate concerns I’ve listed above previously.
I’m not used to asking for help and honestly expect anyone to have the time or concern to assist with my situation when still expected to managing their own set personal struggles and obligations.
Being a newly single mother of 2, trying to maintain some sort of stability and sense security for my kids while actively working to maintain progression with my mental health, the slow regression in health and increasing pain demanding frequent required medical care without a vehicle is extremely challenging and unrealistic for expecting success and true wellness.
I have excellent work history displaying exceptional work ethics and integrity. But right now, with everything that I’ve currently been advised to start immediate action for treatment and aganizing pain makes being able to fully focus and deliver expected results providing us the financial needs is honestly unrealistic goal I can even deliver on at this point.
I’ve scoured the internet and applied to any and every financial assistance programs I could find and qualify for.
- [ ] I’m asking for help paying my storage fees before the auction of all of my family’s belongings the only things we have left after we lost our home. $1500 BEFORE 11/28
- [ ] I’m asking for help with obtaining a vehicle that is reliable and will allow me to commute back and forth for critical immediate medical care and treatment. RELIABLE CAR DONATION TO START CANCER TREATMENT & SURGERY
- [ ] Lastly, I’m asking for assistance finding a malpractice lawyer for my ongoing struggle with a recalled medical device (Essure Coils) I’ve had to endure that have caused years of pain and contributing to further conditions including the most current concerns that I’m now facing. The class action lawsuit has been filed and closed, but have been highly advised to pursue a personal lawsuit due to the severity. LEGAL REPRESENTATION FOR DEFECTIVE MEDICAL DEVICE AND FAILED INSERT CAUSING YEARS OF PAIN & SUFFERING
Ultimately, I’m asking for help but truly looking for hope… because I don’t have much left at this point… cancer or not, it truly kills me more to think I let my kids down after everything they’ve been through when they depend on and need me so much at this new and uncertain time of their lives. Im going to do everything as humanly possible to get control and confidence back in our lives, health, and futures. I can’t let them down knowing they look to me for their continued assurance and sense of security necessary to grow up and create healthy successful futures themselves.
My kids are the most amazing individuals I’ve ever had the privilege of ever knowing. I need to start medical treatment before my conditions progress too far and I ultimately loose any possibility of recovery.
Please help bring hope back to our lives and future.
Thank you for taking the time to hear out my struggles and desperate pleas for help and hope.
-Kay
Let me give a little insight and understanding to why I’m pleading for help.
I’m currently going through a dangerous traumatic divorce making me a newly single mom after 13 years. We just lost our home back in March of 2024 to foreclosure while struggling with mental health illness taking any sense of stability and comfort we had. Forcing my kids and I to move many times for brief periods back and forth between friends and family.
I later lost my job in April 2025 after 10 years of employment while having to focus on getting control with my mental illness and emotional struggles.
Meanwhile, our only car was repossessed due to no longer having a consistent income and ability to pay the expected monthly payments.
Just recently, over the summer I needed medical assistance and went to the ER with excruciating pain caused by a previously recalled medical device(Essure Coils) and overall procedure which has been slowly worsened and additional severe health issues over the years. The ER ran their standard tests and received several concerning results.
Ultimately additional extensive test were ran that revealed I had developed a large rapid growing tumor in my uterus and is believed to be a huge contributor to the intense pain I was frequently having.
My results also reflected concerns with liver functionality that indicated low insulin production now classifying me at pre-diabetic risk.
Additional results continued to show current levels reflecting kidney disease but required further specific testing for final diagnosis.
Finally, my results reflected numerous deficiencies in my blood panel regarding a low white cell count indicating anemia and red cell deficiency carrying abnormally low hemoglobin.
The ER sent an urgent biopsy referral to the appropriate dept for further determine and treatment with expectations of having to also get a hysterectomy.
I’ve started patient enrollment at Stanford Medical located about 2.5 hours away in the Bay Area known for exception reputation and experience with cancer research and treatment. I’m currently waiting for my medical insurance transfer and my doctor’s referral to finishing processing and approval to officially start immediate recommended treatment.
Over the years I’ve been struggling with slow progressive unbearable pain that’s began interfering with simple daily tasks forcing me to seek medical assistance regularly.
No longer having the dependability of my own vehicle or steady reoccurring income. I’ve been relying on county assistance making it near impossible to save enough funds towards purchasing another car in time for critical upcoming appointments. Simple expectation and time sensitive obligations are now stressful and extremely difficult trying to manage and achieve.
Ultimately forcing me to rely and burden others for help attending crucial appointments 2+ hours away in the Bay Area to common unexpected emergencies occasionally needing rides for my kids to or from school when missing their bus. This unfortunately isn’t always reliable option due to having very few trustworthy friends and family I can seek help from.
All of these factors make time crucial obligations difficult and extremely overwhelming to manage while also maintaining progression dealing with my mental health.
I take care of my 16-year-old son and 11-year-old daughter who are the two most important people in my life. They have been through so much stress and major life changing events in such a short time simultaneously making sure to keep up with school expectations staying positive and hopeful. I avoid bringing a lot of focus or concern to my immediate health concerns trying avoid additional stress and uncertainty to their lives while adjusting to our new life dynamics.
All of our sentimental belongings and possessions that we have left were saved in a storage unit right before our home foreclosure finalized and ultimately was auctioned off. Again, due to my limited transportation and limited financial circumstances I have fallen dangerously behind on the month payments.
The storage facility is demanding the full $1500 past due fees paid by the 28th of Nov to avoid loosing everything in auction. Our unit is located about an hour and a half from where we live now in El dorado county all the way in Roseville Ca. Unfortunately, only to circle me back to my repetitive transportation dilemma that truly deserves sole credit of the inability to achieve success and maintain consistency to the immediate concerns I’ve listed above previously.
I’m not used to asking for help and honestly expect anyone to have the time or concern to assist with my situation when still expected to managing their own set personal struggles and obligations.
Being a newly single mother of 2, trying to maintain some sort of stability and sense security for my kids while actively working to maintain progression with my mental health, the slow regression in health and increasing pain demanding frequent required medical care without a vehicle is extremely challenging and unrealistic for expecting success and true wellness.
I have excellent work history displaying exceptional work ethics and integrity. But right now, with everything that I’ve currently been advised to start immediate action for treatment and aganizing pain makes being able to fully focus and deliver expected results providing us the financial needs is honestly unrealistic goal I can even deliver on at this point.
I’ve scoured the internet and applied to any and every financial assistance programs I could find and qualify for.
- [ ] I’m asking for help paying my storage fees before the auction of all of my family’s belongings the only things we have left after we lost our home. $1500 BEFORE 11/28
- [ ] I’m asking for help with obtaining a vehicle that is reliable and will allow me to commute back and forth for critical immediate medical care and treatment. RELIABLE CAR DONATION TO START CANCER TREATMENT & SURGERY
- [ ] Lastly, I’m asking for assistance finding a malpractice lawyer for my ongoing struggle with a recalled medical device (Essure Coils) I’ve had to endure that have caused years of pain and contributing to further conditions including the most current concerns that I’m now facing. The class action lawsuit has been filed and closed, but have been highly advised to pursue a personal lawsuit due to the severity. LEGAL REPRESENTATION FOR DEFECTIVE MEDICAL DEVICE AND FAILED INSERT CAUSING YEARS OF PAIN & SUFFERING
Ultimately, I’m asking for help but truly looking for hope… because I don’t have much left at this point… cancer or not, it truly kills me more to think I let my kids down after everything they’ve been through when they depend on and need me so much at this new and uncertain time of their lives. Im going to do everything as humanly possible to get control and confidence back in our lives, health, and futures. I can’t let them down knowing they look to me for their continued assurance and sense of security necessary to grow up and create healthy successful futures themselves.
My kids are the most amazing individuals I’ve ever had the privilege of ever knowing. I need to start medical treatment before my conditions progress too far and I ultimately loose any possibility of recovery.
Please help bring hope back to our lives and future.
Thank you for taking the time to hear out my struggles and desperate pleas for help and hope.
-Kay
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