I didn’t realize how hard making one of these would be. My sweet Rj passed away in his sleep on Tuesday. He was loved by so many people but most of all by his two sons. They are both so powerfully good and it is a direct reflection of the incredible parents they have.
Rj would write daily affirmations for his boys to read on their whiteboard. I used to watch the intensity grow in his face when he talked about things he was passionate about. See the drive he had to always be better, in any way that he could. He wanted to learn anything that he could, and wasn't afraid to be new at something.
He had a fascination with spirituality and educating himself on different beliefs in it. He burned sage and read self help books. He saw his body building as his art form and that he was his own canvas. He was beautiful and humble. Confident and sensitive.
He was wonderful and he is missed.
The sudden and tragic nature of his passing and the shock and heartache of losing him has left countless people shattered. I created this page to help alleviate some of the stress on his family during this already unbearable time. Any money raised will go towards funeral expenses and his children.