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Bob’s‎ Battle‎ with‎ Brain‎ Cancer #THOMSENSTRONG

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In‎ early‎ May‎ 2019,‎ Bob‎ was‎ diagnosed‎ with‎ Stage‎ 4‎ metastatic‎ brain‎ cancer.‎ A‎ dozen‎ tumors‎ were‎ seen‎ on‎ his‎ MRI‎ in‎ all‎ different‎ areas‎ of‎ his‎ brain.‎ His‎ first‎ neurosurgery‎ to‎ remove‎ one‎ of‎ the‎ tumors‎ for‎ biopsy‎ confirmed‎ it‎ was‎ from‎ melanoma‎ that‎ had‎ metastasized.‎

Two‎ weeks‎ after‎ surgery,‎ Bob‎ received‎ his‎ first‎ treatment‎ of‎ immunotherapy‎ at‎ Sloan‎ Kettering‎ in‎ NYC.‎ The‎ initial‎ infusion‎ went‎ fine‎, but‎ the‎ following‎ day,‎ he‎ fell‎ ill,‎ running‎ high‎ fevers‎ and‎ weakness‎ — mainly‎ in‎ his‎ arms‎ and‎ legs,‎ rendering‎ him‎ unable‎ to‎ walk.‎ A‎ series‎ of‎ medical‎ issues‎ and‎ side‎ effects‎ kept‎ him‎ in‎ the‎ hospital‎ for‎ a‎ total‎ of‎ 6‎ weeks.‎ He‎ spent‎ 2‎ additional‎ weeks‎ at‎ St.‎ Charles‎ Rehab‎ to‎ strengthen‎ his‎ legs‎ and‎ independently‎ walk‎ with‎ a‎ walker.‎ ‎

Just‎ before‎ he‎ was‎ scheduled‎ for‎ his‎ next‎ immunotherapy‎ treatment,‎ he‎ was‎ admitted‎ back‎ into‎ the‎ hospital‎ with brain‎ swelling‎ and‎ weakness‎ on‎ the‎ right‎ side‎ of‎ his‎ body.‎ An‎ MRI‎ revealed‎ that‎ an‎ existing‎ tumor‎ had‎ grown‎ to‎ four‎ times‎ its‎ original‎ size‎ in‎ just‎ 2‎ months.‎ The‎ tumor‎ was‎ close‎ enough‎ to‎ the‎ surface‎ of‎ his‎ brain‎ that‎ the‎ Neurosurgeon‎ was‎ confident‎ he‎ could‎ remove‎ it‎ without‎ causing‎ any‎ permanent‎ damage.‎ The‎ surgery‎ was‎ a‎ success.‎ Following‎ the‎ second‎ surgery,‎ his‎ team‎ at‎ Sloan‎ Kettering‎ agreed‎ he would‎ benefit‎ from‎ some‎ radiation‎ prior‎ to‎ returning‎ to‎ the‎ immunotherapy‎ treatment.‎ ‎So‎, last‎ week,‎ radiation‎ was‎ completed‎ over‎ 3‎ consecutive‎ days.‎

Bob‎ is‎ scheduled‎ for‎ his‎ second‎ immunotherapy‎ treatment‎ on‎ October‎ 3,‎ 2019.‎

Immunotherapy‎ is‎ the‎ best‎ treatment‎ available‎ to‎ fight‎ this‎ type‎ of‎ brain‎ metastases.‎ Our‎ prayer‎ is‎ that‎ Immunotherapy‎ will‎ shrink‎ and‎ kill‎ the‎ remaining‎ tumors‎ in‎ Bob’s‎ brain.‎

This‎ has‎ been‎ a‎ stressful‎ and‎ difficult‎ time‎ for‎ Bob,‎ his‎ wife‎ Ann‎ and‎ their‎ 4‎ children.‎ Bob‎ is‎ an‎ IT‎ consultant‎ that‎ traveled‎ out‎ of‎ state‎ (and‎ sometimes‎ the‎ country‎) for‎ work.‎ Unable‎ to‎ work‎ since‎ his‎ diagnosis,‎ he‎ went‎ out‎ on‎ disability‎ from‎ work‎ back‎ in‎ May.‎ He‎ is‎ nearing‎ the‎ end‎ of‎ his‎ work‎ benefits‎ and‎ Ann‎ is‎ on‎ leave‎ from‎ her‎ part‎ time‎ job‎ at‎ the‎ local‎ High‎ School‎ to‎ stay‎ home‎ and‎ care‎ for‎ him‎ full‎-time.

The‎ Shoreham-Wading‎ River‎ community‎ where‎ they‎ live,‎ in‎ addition‎ to‎ family‎ and‎ friends,‎ have‎ all‎ provided‎ tons‎ of‎ love,‎ support,‎ meals,‎ gift‎ cards‎ and‎ rides‎ for‎ them.‎ Bob‎ and‎ Ann‎ are‎ so‎ grateful.‎

So many people have asked, “What Can I Do To Help”. 
This‎ campaign‎ has‎ been‎ established‎ for‎ those‎ interested‎ in‎ directly‎ assisting‎ with‎ what‎ will‎ be‎ a‎ mountain‎ of‎ medical‎ expenses,‎ treatment-related‎ travel‎ expenses,‎ as‎ well‎ as‎ covering‎ everyday‎ expenses‎ including‎ food‎ and‎ household‎ bills‎.‎ If‎ you‎ would‎ like‎ to‎ assist‎ with‎ their‎ financial‎ burden,‎ any‎ donation‎ would‎ be‎ greatly‎ appreciated.‎ Bob‎ is‎ the‎ sole‎ provider‎ for‎ his‎ family.‎ He‎ has‎ a‎ humble,‎ selfless‎ heart‎ —‎ which‎ is‎ why‎ we‎ are‎ taking‎ it‎ upon‎ ourselves‎ to‎ step‎ up‎ to‎ the‎ plate‎ and‎ help‎ make‎ sure‎ that‎ Ann,‎ Matthew,‎ Connor,‎ Kaylee‎ and‎ Zachary‎ are‎ provided‎ for‎ during‎ this‎ time.

On‎ behalf‎ of‎ Bob‎ &‎ Ann,‎ their‎ closest‎ friends‎ and‎ the‎ entire‎ Thomsen‎ and‎ Gregorio‎ family,‎ we‎ are‎ thankful‎ for‎ the‎ outpouring‎ of‎ love,‎ prayers‎ and‎ support‎ shown‎ over‎ the summer,‎ and‎ during‎ the‎ months‎ to‎ come.‎ Your‎ prayers‎ for‎ successful‎ treatments‎ and‎ strength‎ for‎ his‎ family‎ are‎ sincerely‎ appreciated.
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    Christine Thomsen McDermott
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    Miller Place, NY
    Ann Gregorio Thomsen
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