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Bobby Messmer Memorial Fund for Kai and Noah

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Bobby Messmer was a loving father, son, brother, uncle, and friend to many before a tragic car accident took his life away.  On April 19th, while driving to do a side job he rear ended a car and suddenly swerved where he hit into a jersey wall.
When the police/EMT's came upon the scene he was unresponsive and without a pulse however, the EMT's were able to revive him.   Bobby was transported to the hospital where he laid in CICU until April 25th.  We his family believe he was revived so we could all have time to say our final good-byes.

With the bad came the good... We discovered at the hospital that Bobby was an organ donor and with his passing he was going to give life to three people.    One recipient being a very close friend of the family who has been on dialysis for the past five years.  The other recipients were a seventeen year old male and a fifty-seven year old male.   As the family grieves it gives a sense of peace that Bobby will live on in others.   Bobby was a positive man with an infectious smile knowing that he given the gift life eases the pain.  

However, Bobby leaves behind two loving sons, Kai Robert and Noah Carter.  Kai is a fifteen year old who making his way through high school and Noah is a five year old who will begin Kindergarten this Fall.   Both boys loved their father deeply and our very saddened about now navigating through life without him.  Bobby loved these two boys unconditionally and wanted to give them all that he could however, as we found out he did not have life insurance.   To ease some of the pain for the family during this stressful time we are asking for donations to help set up a trust for the two boys in memory of their father Bobby Messmer.  So as the boys grow they will know that their father always loved and was thinking of them.  Please donate what you can and keep Bobby, his boys, and family in your thoughts and prayers.
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Donations 

  • Lisa Whittle
    • $100
    • 4 yrs
  • Rebecca Green
    • $25
    • 4 yrs
  • maura hulsey
    • $100
    • 4 yrs
  • Benjamin Gruver
    • $50
    • 4 yrs
  • Larry Conaway Jr
    • $250
    • 4 yrs
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Organizer

Beth Gruver
Organizer
Catonsville, MD

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