Another update:

It is with great sadness and a heavy heart that I inform all of you that my beautiful daughter and son-in-law soloman had to say goodbye to my beautiful grandson yesterday

He faught a good fight and stayed for as long as his tiny body would allow him too.

Time for his mumma an papa and siblings and myself an his aunties and uncles and his other nanna to love on him let him know how much he was loved and wanted he was one very special little boy who will always have have place in our hearts and an even bigger place in his mumma and papas heart..

Sleep tight azaryiah nanny will love you till her last breath thank you for all the love you made me feel and will continue to feel until we meet again my beautiful little warrior give angel nanny a big kiss an cuddle from us all she will take good care of you until I can and until mummy and daddy can

Rest well with the angels never ever forget how much you are loved

Love always nanny m an pops m

Mummy daddy all your brothers and sisters your aunts and uncles

Update:

Baby A is now born and fighting with all his might..

Hi my name is Margaret

I'm a mum to 6 amazing kids

The story starts here and this is going to be one of the hardest thing I've ever had to write..

I have an amazing daughter charnelle and an amazing son-in-law Solomon..

Together they have eight beautiful children

Isaiah malakai Amaiyah soriyah Solomon Narliyah judah and ataliyah..

Earlier this year they found out they was expecting baby no 9

The shock excitement and the love for a new baby joining their family was exciting and overwhelming..

And as a nanna I was as equally shocked but not surprised

You see charnelle is such a wonderful mum it just comes naturally to her as it does for Solomon being a dad..

I cannot fault these two as parents Together they are amazing...

So here's the saddest part by far im going to have to share with you all..

You see my poor precious girl and son-in-law Solomon was given the devastating news that their baby that we now know is a boy (baby A) and due in December but will be born earlier

Is not compatible with life..

They/we dont know if he'll be born breathing or if he'll live for seconds minutes or hours

As im writing this my heart is breaking for the two of them and the tears are flowing..

You see my precious grandson hasn't developed the top part of his skull and as a result he's now only got part of his brain..

So what should be the most happiest time is turning out to be the hardest most heart breaking time for my baby girl having to plan her own un born sons funeral before she's even got the chance to meet him..

She is without a doubt the strongest girl I know and I take my hat off to her to say I am proud of her is the biggest understatement.

So you see pride aside and I've spoken to the both of them about this go fund me and had permission to do it

All im asking for is a little help to help them and the kids..

No matter how big or small I just want them to not have to worry about finances and for them to have a memorial garden for my precious grandson..

Even a share would be appreciated

If every sharer could donate even as little as a pound it would help massively..

An if one thing I've done by sharing their story and heartbreak can help anyone else in their situation I know we've done something good amist all this heartbreak ..

I just want to say thank you for reading this an I want my daughter an son-in-law to know how very proud I am of them both

I'll love you always charnelle and Solomon an I will do my best to ease the burden of what you're going to go through these next few months ..

Love always mum ❤️