On Friday, September 26, my dad, Tyson, passed away unexpectedly while waiting to go to work. His strong personality was a trait everybody instantly recognized, and I often found myself both challenged and inspired by it. He always called me his "mini me," and I used to roll my eyes at that, but I now understand just how true it was. The older I get, especially after spending so much time apart, the more I see his humor, his know-it-all spirit, and his obsessiveness reflected in myself.

One of my first Halloween costumes was a little baby Gene Simmons, an idea that could only come from him. He had a unique ability to make life fun, and I cherish those memories. One time he woke me up in the middle of the night to go get a chocolate lava cake from Applebee’s. My dad also served in the Marines, following in my grandpa’s footsteps, which showed his dedication and strong sense of duty. Yet, despite all of his strength, my dad carried burdens silently. He never wanted to be a burden to anyone, often bottling his struggles with humor, movies, and a cold Miller Lite. I wish more than anything that he had felt he could share those burdens with me.

My dad had countless wonderful qualities, but he was also disorganized, living life in the moment without worrying about things like life insurance or a secure home title. I’ve hesitated to create this GoFundMe, feeling like I was being a burden myself. However, the reality of the challenges ahead has made it clear that I need to accept help and condolences openly.

Facing the crematory office to discuss arrangements for my dad was one of the hardest things I've ever done, and seeing those bills hit my statement was a smack in the face. This is just the beginning of the journey, and while I know I will find a way to honor my dad’s memory, I also recognize that I need support right now.

I will be traveling to Kansas on October 12 with my mom, and I look forward to connecting with everyone and feeling that strength from our community. I feel strong right now despite everything! Any contributions, no matter how small, will mean the world to me during this. Thank you so much for your love, support, and kindness!!!!