I'm Dustin Adkins, a 20+ year friend of Paul and Shelley, and godfather to Destany and Phoenix. As you now know, Paul passed away this afternoon on Shelley's birthday, after complications with a blood clot in his lungs. I volunteered to help the family gather funds for Paul's cremation and services. They would greatly appreciate the help, whatever you might be able to share. Thank you for helping them out at a time of urgent need. Arrangements have not been made yet for Paul's memorial service, but will be forthcoming.