This is one of the hardest things I have ever had to write.

I have always been someone who handles my own problems privately and quietly, so asking for help in this way feels deeply embarrassing. I would not be doing this if I weren’t completely overwhelmed and out of options.

Over the past several months, my life has been upended by a divorce that has become far more adversarial and destructive than I ever anticipated. What should have been a difficult but manageable legal process spiraled into a situation where I was forced to retain legal counsel urgently to protect myself and my safety. The initial retainer alone was $12,000, and legal costs continue to grow as the case drags on.

At the same time, debt continues to accumulate as I try to keep up with basic living expenses while navigating this divorce alone.

As if that weren’t enough, something truly heartbreaking happened. My former spouse broke into my home and stole my dog — a companion who means everything to me. When I was finally able to recover my dog, I learned that he now needs urgent medical care and surgery estimated at $14,000. I am devastated, both emotionally and financially, and terrified that I won’t be able to give him the care he needs without help.

I picked up Samwise from the veterinary today, Easter, with another $5,500 for a total nearing $20,000.

I never imagined I would be facing legal chaos, financial ruin, and fear for my pet’s wellbeing all at once. I am exhausted, ashamed to be asking, and still trying to hold everything together.

If you are able to help in any way — whether through a donation, sharing this fundraiser, or simply offering encouragement — it would mean more than I can properly express. Every single contribution goes toward legal survival and lifesaving care for my dog.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. Thank you for your kindness, your discretion, and your support during one of the most difficult chapters of my life.