Army wife and mother of 2, need help

Honestly just feeling so overwhelmed and asking for help. I am currently trying to piece myself together in the NICU in Oklahoma City.. I am alone and feeling so lost. I came to Oklahoma to visit my husband who is currently stationed at Fort Sill because he is in the army. I live in Oregon and hadn't seen him in months. When I finally did see him I started having labor pains and thought "oh no, it's to early", I was rushed to the hospital where I was rejected with full on contractions, they did this several times until my baby was in distress and I had to have an emergency C-section. When they got my newborn baby boy out of me he had problems breathing and they had to emergency transport him to Oklahoma city while I was still stuck at the other hospital an hour and a half away. I didn't hold my baby until he was 5 days old. Now because of his needs I have to move here so the doctors can see him.. I live in Oregon.. I have a 3 year old son in Oregon and no money to move because the army only helps when you have orders. I'm honestly at a loss and feeling so alone. My heart is torn apart, I've been forced to stay away from my other child for the past 3 weeks. I need to somehow move my whole house which is half way across the country with no money and a baby in the hospital. I dont know what to do and my husband can't help me either.. I'm feeling so lost, broken and overwhelmed.