ALICE HARRIS

Hello im Cynthia .. and never in my life did I ever expect to have to type something up like this.. but sadly I'm a Sibling of FOUR && handling my mom's soon to be death alone. I am a single parent of 3 boys && I've been helping my mom fight through her battle with cancer over the last 7 years. These last two years have been so brutal for her and withing the last few weeks she's declined tremendously .. she's currently at hospice where they are giving her medication to control her pain and help make her as comfortable as she could be for the rest of her journey ... I myself am a typical human who works a 4 to 10 job daily to help financially support my family .. I never was able to keep up with insurance policy payments and I am financially in a runt when it comes down to her final living Costs and death expenses ... I am doing my best to stay a float mentally , physically and spiritually for my boys. My oldest KC is taking it harder then the rest because he's aware of what's going on and doesn't want his grandma to die but is sad to see his mom crying every day . My youngest has behavior issues &on-going health issues that I'm trying my best to get him enrolled in programs but it's hard when I can't work at the moment because I need to care for my mother on her last days . I've reached out to my family and sadly they have all shut me out ... I'm scared and terrified because I've never lived a day without my mother the whole 32 years of my life and I'm certainly not prepared . This happened so fast , she was just able to care for herself and my kids just a few short months ago and now is completely dependent on me.. so ive put my pride aside and I'm reaching out for help . She's done SO MUCH FOR SO MANY PEOPLE growing up and if anything this is the time it can be generously returned .. I know her love will forever live on thru all of her extended children as well thru myself and her grandchildren. My mother was a high school graduate of Meyers high school class of 77. She was a hard working woman all her life to provide and support her family of 4 and never let us down or go without . She was a cheerleadering coach and advisor of the mini Mohawk league back in her prime and was always a second mother and home for all the kids to come to . Our favorite TV time together was to watch general hospital.. she never missed a beat. . And our night time dates were always set for law and order SVU ( HER ALL TIME CRUSH TO ELLIOT EVEN THO SHE KNEW SHE DIDNT STAND A CHANCE BECAUSE SHE WAS THE WRONG GENDER ) SHE always took on more then she could handle and always managed to handle it like a boss . And I've always said if I could be half the woman she is and was to so many people and myself then I could be proud. .. I have watched her suffer terribly the last few weeks and watched her fade away to just about nothing and watching her suffer so badly is traumatic . She has always been an exceptional woman and she doesn't deserve what she's going thru right now nor did she deserve to be abandoned by her own kids. My promise to her is that I will continue to be strong for her . I'll continue to be the light for her grandkids. I'll do my best to keep whatever family we have left together. I just need some time and help to get back on my feet ... I'm scared I'm going to fall behind on bills while trying to financially take care of her death expenses. . So this is just a little support for my family right now during this crucial time.. and any and all help would be greatly appreciated beyond all measures.. I know my mom loved so many people and I know she's touched so many lives ♡ I hope her memory will live on forever.. and hopefully her angels will come help her be a peace...

Myself and my family love and appreciate you all and I know my mom sends all her love ♡

And when the time does come where she is at peace. I'll be holding a memorial dinner at home for any and all guests who would want to come and celebrate her life with the people who meant most to her ..

Cynthia harris