SUPPORT FOR "ALI'S" FAMILY 6211954-11302023

As most know , My mother and I have been struggling since her retirement June 20216 when we found out she had stage 3b Metastatic Breast cancer and in November 2019 diagnonsed with Alzheimers Disease.

My amazing , caring , loving , one of a kind is no longer with us . She passed away November 30th 3:30 am 2023 in her home holding my hand

We were not expecting her to go so fast and so soon . It started with a tooth infection and a UTI .. Hospital for 6 days , back on hospice . And within weeks she is gone.

My mother did not want funeral or any arrangements. Just for her ashes to be spread over her Mother's grave. I told my mother I am still having a "celebration of life " "memorial" for her. She was a strong, independent, positive, loving , kind , lit up a room full of darkness with her smile and eyes . She had a hard life when she was growing up , she was left at a bar at age 7 to be picked up by a stranger and taken into the loving arms of her mother "Fannie " and her father Frank and into a huge Italain family that treated her with so much love.

She did not deserve to get sick right during retirement. She retired into becoming sick . I stayed by her side for 7 to 8 years . I never gave up on her . And for that I take much pride in for I know alot of people wouldn't do what I've done . She deserved that much . I wasn't going to keep her in a nursing home with no family with her. I stopped my life for 8 years for my mother.

Since I was getting paid through ppl to take care of my mother , I have no income coming in now. No ssi and her pension stops . I am trying to keep her house but unfortunately I am not 55 + and I will not be able to live here .

For the time being I am trying to find work but in this time of grieving and getting everything else done . I won't be able to pay mortgage ,bills etc. All my mother had was this house after working since she was 16 years old

No life insurance .

I thank everyone that is giving their condolences and asking if I need anything. Yes anything will help ....

I want my mother back . But I know she is at peace now and with her mother and the rest of the family and friends ..thats all she ever wanted. ..she didn't want to leave me though.. I told her don't worry mom I will figure it all out ,somehow . Last thing she told me was " I love you always and forever, you're good to me , now its time to go live your life." I am still in shock and I am stressed out over this money situtation . I do not want to become homeless after all I have done for my mother , I don't think my mother will let that happen.

I have been stressing and now grieving the loss of my Mother and best friend. Not only once but twice. #cancersucks#alzheimerssucks

#Needhelpasap

I hope your dancing in heaven with mommom right now. I miss you Ma !!!!!!!always will !!!!!!