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Hi,
My name's Caoimhe and, I need help. Below is context for why.
So, over the past 6 months life has been telling me personally that 2025 was not going to be my year. I had a falling out with my family back in February, that left me left me nearly homeless. Thanks to a friend of mine's compassion I was able to move in with them. I lent them money when they hit rock bottom, helped them find a job, and got to know their family.
Prior to moving in with them, I had spent the past 5 years struggling to pay off a car loan and the expenses associated with ownership. $500 a month, when you've never had credit history, isn't easy. Especially before tacking on high insurance premiums along with upkeep costs. I also used to help my parents pay their own debts; giving extra to try and aid them in their times of need.
In addition to struggling financially, I am in the process of recovering from a torn rotator cuff, and tennis elbow. Both on the same arm. These injuries have made it difficult to perform at a high level at my current job. with management routinely disrespecting me by introducing me as 'fucking useless' to new employees to you. All of these issues have lead to my mental health deteriorating with suicidal thoughts becoming more frequent. My manager having recently told me I am out of work until a licensed professional clears me. Being that I am unable to afford a psychiatric examination, I was forced to quit.
Shortly after hearing about my unemployment the friend I had been staying with decided to leave the house you and his family were staying. He is no longer helping to share payment of mortgage like was previously agreed to. So now his sister, mother, and grandmother as well as myself will all be displaced.
It feels as though nothing has been going right for me, and yet still I will press on. The physical pain, mental anguish, and fear of being homeless again keep me up at night. I am currently struggling to find a new job, having submitted over 40 applications in the past few days.
So where does that leave me now? If you see this all I can ask for is one of two things.
1) Share this with someone who can spread the word further.
2) If you can help me in anyway, please.
I know this isn't easy to do, and especially for a stranger. I did not want to make this request. I have to. I need help. To show you where the money will go I have what happens for each amount I reach.
1,400: I catch up on bills, fix the car, and can contribute in small amount towards the mortgage this month. It buys my to the 16th of July.
2,800: Pays for bills for next month and half of the mortgage is paid. I can almost surrender the vehicle if I get this amount and try to consolidate the debt I'm in.
4,000: I can fully surrender the car back, pay the next two months, and look for a $200 beater of a vehicle while finding new employment. I will have enough money until August, all the money left goes towards keeping my friends family in their house and paying my debts off steadily.


