For all who have known Pam, Pammy, Pamela Berman...she just lost her son, Aaron. 
I really don't feel it's my place, at this time, to tell a story about Aaron; but as a lifetime friend I know one way we can help.
This is an unimaginable, devastating situation. One way we can help is to help create a peaceful, less of a hardship, transition in preparing Aaron's resting place. You may know the associated expenses.
Your contributions are a mitzvah.
May Aaron's memory be a blessing.