Lossing one's spouse and house. Please help. On March 23 this year my partner of 43 years died of a heart attack at breackfast. We were planning on finally getting married June 9th. Needless to say this loss pushed me to try and follow her. While I was in the hospital recovering a CAR ran into my house and ended up in the basement. The car's driver was drunk and had no insurance.While trying gto figure all this out I received a final notice to pay the taxes on the house for 2012. I either pay or they will sell the house for the back taxes. I have no idea where I'll get the money from. Could you please help me save my home? Thank you for your time.