I am starting this GoFundMe so we can live and go day to day a bit easier. We did not post photos of ourselves because we would like to stay anonymous due to feeling ashamed to ask for help. We have been stuggling all year. I can't say I've had the hardest life and not the easiest one either. I had a good life growing up, but life as an adult has not been easy. I have mental issues and health issues. I've seen over 50 doctors this year and had one surgery, and was told recently I need to have a second one, but due to circumstances, I can’t and need to put it off as long as possible. I work 50 to 60 hours a week to try to provide for myself, my husband, and our two pups. My husband had a really hard life growing up and is still struggling as an adult, especially as a civilian now.
My husband has been recently discharged from the military and is having a hard time keeping a job. We do our best to keep ourselves and our pups fed. He is getting services from the VA, but you know how that goes. They try to help, but not all our needs are being met.
I work 2 jobs and work very hard at them. We struggle, but no one around us really knows. We have been really secretive about them with everyone around us because we don’t want to be a burden to others around us. We feel so ashamed to ask for help but at this point we just dont know what to do.
I am starting this to try and help us just a little bit so I won't have to work so hard and he can get a little bit of peace of mind and get the help he really needs. The holidays can be rough for us since we don't have family and very few friends. The money we receive will help with food, medical bills, and just things that come up.
Things just don’t seem to be going our way. It’s just one thing after another and our bills keep piling up. We are unable to pay for a lot of our bills and always seem to be in debt every month and it keeps piling up. Each paycheck immediately disappears after getting paid. The only thing keeping us from living on the street right now is the bank letting us get overdrawn.
For people who say we can get some side gigs we have tried doing odd jobs and all the online delivery gigs but nothing seems to be stable enough to get us through each month. Due to how much I have been working, it has definitely affected my health and made it worse than it already was.
We just need a little help to get ahead and stay afloat. If i can fundraise enough money, I can finally take time off work to get my surgery without worring; even a dollar is helpful and appreciated. Thank you.


