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My beautiful sister is currently fighting the hardest battle of her life: terminal cancer.
Our world was shattered when we received the devastating news that her cancer which she has bravely battled for the past 15 months has progressed. What began as misdiagnosed until it was stage 4 Ovarian Cancer has now metastasised in her liver and her brain.
After exhausting the treatment options available to us locally, we have been told that time is running out. But we are not ready to give up on her and more importantly, Pam is not ready to give up - she is a fighter, an inspiration and I have truly never seen anyone so brave and so strong and with such a desire to live, I listened as she told her doctor " You have given up on me, but I am not ready to give up, this is my life and I have still so much to live for"
With extensive research and a few 'worth a shot' phone calls to consultants all over the world, we found a specialist cancer hospital in Istanbul who offered a treatment plan that could give Pam a fighting chance—a chance at more time, more memories, and more life. This treatment is now her last hope.
The initial cost of this urgent treatment, travel, and medical care is approximately £70,000, an amount far beyond what our family can manage alone, though the truth is we do not know what the total cost of Pamela's treatment will be. We never imagined having to ask for help like this, but today we are reaching out with humble hearts and desperate hope. Rest assured that once Pam has all the treatment she needs she will make it her goal to give back and help others.
Pam is more than just a patient—she is a loving wife to Anthony, an amazing mother to Alex, James and Toni-Louise and her children in law, Jayde, Ralph and Marianne. An incredible Neena ( Grandma ) to Melody and Sophia and another little grandchild due this summer who she desperately wants to meet.
She's the best daughter, the kindest sister, the coolest aunt, the most thoughtful caring friend, and a light in so many people’s lives. She is kind, loving, and has ALWAYS put others before herself. If you have met her, you love her. She is and always has been, the life and soul of every party and can always make us laugh hysterically until the tears run down our faces.
In her long career in hairdressing she has been more than your stylist, she has been a true friend, a great listener and advisor, always willing to help others in any way she can.
Pam has been involved in raising money for numerous charities for as long as I can remember.....who could forget all those fashion shows she single handily organised over the years where we all thought we were supermodels and had the best times?? She is a person sent here to help others and she feels she has so much more to give.
Watching her fight this illness with such bravery and strength has been heartbreaking and inspiring all at once. She has a beautiful heart and a very strong faith. We have all relied heavily on prayer to get through this time and we feel God has answered our prayers by steering her towards this hospital and giving her the strength to go.
We are asking from the bottom of our hearts:
Please help us give her this chance to fight.
Every donation, no matter how small, will go directly toward:
Her life-saving cancer treatment in Istanbul
Hospital and specialist care costs
Travel and accommodation during treatment
Ongoing medical support and recovery expenses
If you are unable to donate, please consider sharing this page with others. Every share could bring us one step closer to saving her life.
Thank you for reading our story, for your kindness, your prayers, and your support during the most difficult time of our lives. x
Organizer and beneficiary
Pamela Stephens
Beneficiary


