Remembering Pamela Rose Jarvis: Is the coffee fresh, love?

My grandmother, Pamela Rose Jarvis, was the cornerstone and matriarch of our family. For over 35 years, she was a beloved presence as the snack bar lady at Anaheim Hills Golf Course, where she worked nearly full-time until the age of 80. In 2020, Nana contracted COVID-19, and though she fought valiantly to recover, the virus accelerated the progression of her dementia, ultimately changing the course of her life.

They call it "the long goodbye" when you love someone with dementia, but if there’s one thing Grams taught us, it’s how to love fiercely. She was unapologetically herself—if she didn’t like you, you’d know it, but if she loved you, she would give you the shirt off her back.

The outpouring of love and support from family, friends, and neighbors has been more than we could have ever imagined. It’s a testament to the impact Grams had on so many lives, and we cannot thank you enough for standing by us during this difficult time.

This loss has been our family’s closest and hardest yet. The unplanned financial strain of saying goodbye to our Grams has been overwhelming for my mom and us grandkids, who were the center of her world & after several messages /calls/texts asking how to help, I am learning to accept the help and love when it’s offered. 

Should you feel inclined to contribute toward her services, any amount would mean the world to us. Donations can be accepted here, via zelle (949-258-2289) or venmo (@Justin-Briand).

Your love and support mean the world to us. From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for helping us carry forward her legacy and for loving our Grams!

With gratitude,

Justin + Family

(Paula, Alexa, Jordan, CJ, Amy, Taylor, Rutger, Breanna, Jenelle, George Jr., Caleb + Olivia)