Since not being road kil…! “TAKING THE NEXT STEP”

ONE LITERAL STEP AT A TIME IS WHAT IT TAKES: A Fundraiser for home bills while in the hospital has developed into a plea to fund my wishes, hopes, and dreams.

I am a wanna be beauty queen with a battle plan for world peace! Greetings! I am Kate Oliver, (Kate means pure and Oliver means peace) I’m a certified teacher having taught for the department of defense, I am also a proud Army veteran (just 24 hours ago was a homeless female veteran with PTSD from repeated exposure with near death experiences), and a passionate advocate for sacred sexuality education (our voice is our choice, but my voice was not heard and my security was breeched at three facilities when an order of protection was told to staff at arrival each time). My mission is to provide love, healing, and embrace diverse expressions of intimacy to those who need it the most. Right now what I needed most was protection from a predator. And when he hovered over me and told me only he would ever love me and that he controlled my quality of care because they would believe him, but who would believe someone like me…and followed that up with a demand that I would have to “treat him better”. I can not. I can do nothing more than punch out and roll off my bed so the alarm ‼️ sounded the nurses to the emergency.

I find myself miraculously STANDING at the starting line (loosing mobility is not how I end my journey). I’m ready to embark on a path of hope, resilience, and strength training my body to walk again.

Sept. 11, 2023

Today I’m voicing my dream in defense of femininity that’s been under attack by feminists looking for empowerment from men and queens who command the presence of a room demanding the attention, all eyes are right “On you ma’am!” (Army strong right there. I’m a fuck yeah to that, btw.)

So, back to the dream… it is to be interviewed on stage at my gallery opening and to teach my methods of traversing the innerverse of relationships while navigating the battlefield of the sexes and gender with the grace and power of ART. I AM ART. I demand respect for the velvet rope that surrounds my 3’ world. I want to teach power dynamics and the skill it takes to command femininity to female service members, their feminine honoring dependents, and the gender-flex community. I hope to do this through examination of experience in the sex subculture and applying the wisdom to common relationships of the day… any of them… really. I teach a 50 hour mastermind of 8 elite individuals who wish to study and master sexual wisdom.

I will be on stage at the Erotic Heritage Museum in Las Vegas November 1st claiming All Saints’ Day as a day to celebrate all that is sacred in sex and suffering.

The art exhibit will have gallery spaces for my graphics can draw you to what is artistic and beautiful and what is arousing and alluring about suffering. How I’m using femininity and demanding pleasures when i have no choice about the suffering that must be endured… I find myself in love and with hope for an echo in return. It is ease and provides relief simply by answering.

please answer my dream that I’m casting from this full moon to the closest star… fund the cost of the stage so I can provide a meaningful answer for the amount of suffering this body is experiencing.

August 10, 14-23, 24-31, 2023

Dear friends, family, and compassionate souls,

It is with a mix of vulnerability and gratitude that I share my story with you today. On that fateful day in August, as I navigated the bustling streets of Chicago Avenue, fate dealt me a devastating blow. A pressure fracture in my spine compounded in that very instant, leaving my legs paralyzed with a dull empty sensation, my body collapsing in a puddle, with oncoming traffic closing in. The shock and terror of army crawling in my civilian life was from the oncoming domvsn hmmmm headlights is a moment that will forever be etched in my memory.

As the rainstorm raged, the oncoming car swerved and came to a halt, shielding me from harm and the chaos of unaware vehicles behind it. It was as if my aura, on that particular day, was woven from the delicate wings of guardian angels.

Since that life-altering incident, I find myself on a new and unexpected journey of recovery. Emergency spinal surgery became the only path towards regaining my mobility and rebuilding my life. This surgical procedure, combined with the costly medical care and rehabilitation that follow, have created an overwhelming financial burden.

Recognizing the need for assistance, I humbly reach out to each and every one of you, dear friends and loved ones. Your support and generosity can make an immense difference in my healing process. Together, we can uplift the weight of medical bills that seem insurmountable.

Through this fundraiser campaign, aptly titled “THE NEXT STEPS," I aim to rally the power of community, kindness, and empathy. By sharing this burden collectively, we can ensure that the daunting costs of this unexpected chapter in my life do not hinder my recovery or financial stability.

Your contribution, no matter how big or small, will have an immeasurable impact on my life. Whether it is a heartfelt donation, words of encouragement, or spreading the word about our campaign, your involvement will radiate hope and provide much-needed support during this challenging time.

Join MY SUCCESSFUL STEPS in my pursuit of healing, resilience, and reclaiming the use of my legs. Let us prove that no obstacle is insurmountable when we stand united in compassion and solidarity. Together, as a member of this community, we can transform adversity into triumph.

Thank you, from the bottom of my hear for hearing my request, for your unwavering support and love.

It's a pleasure to share a bit about myself with you as you continue reading….

I have always believed in the power of education and human connection, which led me to become a member of the ISTA community - the Internal School of Temple Arts. Through this community, I have discovered the profound intersection between personal growth and the exploration of human sexuality. As a lifelong student, I am also involved with the Sexual Health Alliance (SHA) - an organization that promotes sexual health education and advocacy.

But my journey doesn't stop there. I'm a firm believer in constant self-improvement and have integrated the principles and teachings of the LANDMARK community into my daily life. This community has been instrumental in helping me develop a strong sense of integrity, authenticity, and personal responsibility.

On top of all these endeavors, I am incredibly honored to serve as the President of the KiNDer Foundation. This foundation focuses on empowering Human Sexuality as beautifully diverse, and strives to eliminate shame and judgement by normalizing conversations about sex, sexual health, self-care, intimacy and pleasure through experiential education, providing them with the necessary tools to succeed in life. It fills me with great joy to be able to contribute to their education and well-being.

Throughout my career, I have strived to create a nurturing and inclusive learning environment where every student feels seen, heard, and valued. Being an Army veteran has taught me the importance of discipline, resilience, and adaptability, qualities that I bring into my role as an educator.

I am truly grateful for the diverse experiences and communities that have shaped me into the person I am today. As a licensed teacher, ISTA community member, SHA student, LANDMARK community practitioner, President of the KiNDer Foundation, and supporter of all intimately loving relationships, I am committed to making a positive impact in the lives of others because I am still here to help!

I love living my life. Please help me love and heal.

Gratefully yours,

Kate Oliverjj