‼️Urgent Help Needed for My Family ‼️ 

 On September 9th at 9:00am, my 3 children and I are scheduled to be locked out of our home and become homeless. Despite showing proof of our landlord’s neglect, Judge Ducey denied our hardship stay. I have filed again, and the motion is being reviewed, but time is running out. We have endured: Housing insecurity — landlord refuses to provide a rent statement, leaving us unable to resolve arrears even with assistance programs. The judge denied a hardship stay due to unknown amount of rent owed. We’re approved for section 8 on a short list to receive the voucher so we can have housing stability. Financial crisis — I lost TANF support due to child support enforcement. The termination is set for October, and I’m losing access to vital programs like car repair assistance as a result. Child support is insufficient to address cost of living. Utilities are shut off, and I’m on waitlists for over 15 agencies. 

Transportation sabotage — a mechanic confirmed my car was intentionally tampered with. The cut ground wire caused major electrical damage, leaving my only vehicle unsafe and unreliable. This is the 2nd time as it was confirmed by a mechanic that 2/4 bolts on the skid plate of my Honda civic were removed causing the plate to scrape the street causing sparks that could have set the car on  

On top of this, two of my children are sick with hand, foot & mouth disease this week, and I’m doing everything I can just to hold us together. 

  I’m asking for help to keep my kids safe, housed, and together. Funds will go toward: • Bringing rent current to stop eviction • Covering storage/motel if we lose our home • Utilities & basic needs for the kids • Car repairs to keep us mobile and safe Every share, every donation, every bit of support means the world to us right now. ❤️

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My 3 children and I are going to be locked out 8:30am on 9/2/25. If we are locked out will be forced to either accept shelter at the hotel where my children were trafficked by their father for CSAM or become homeless on the streets. 

We have the opportunity for a 6-month hardship stay if we can bring the rent current. I am that  with a combination of this fundraiser and an assistance program we can make that happen.  

The funds would be used to bring rent current, and if that is not possible then for storage, motel, car repair, and lawyer fees. My priority is my children and their safety… not only their physical safety but psychological safety as well. This includes keeping our savior and protector Draco with us ‍ We have a pending section 8 voucher available to us and with a little more time we can find stability in a place where we can all remain safely together. 

$500 = a week of safe shelter and storage $12,000= 6 months of safe shelter, a life towards stability, and initial legal fees to get justice for my kids and my career back

My priority is my children and their safety… not only their physical safety but psychological safety as well. This includes keeping our savior and protector Draco with us ‍ We have a pending section 8 voucher available to us and with a little more time we can find stability in a place where we can all remain safely together. 

Draco saved me during my darkest depression and my oldest son who suffered the most in foster care. My son was reunified with me starving, suicidal, and with more complex trauma than before. He asked me to take a picture of him and Draco the day he got home and was unable to even smile as a result of the horror he has been through. Draco has become his best friend and helped him rise out of depression, get back to a healthy weight, and find his spark again. My children and I cannot imagine a day without our savior and protector Draco.

 My children and I are survivors of domestic violence and violent crimes of a man who was supposed to love and protect us. We weren’t prepared to become survivors of abuse from the agencies we reached out to for safety and protection and how the resulting barriers would keep us from moving forward. 

The road ahead of us is rocky, but as long as we are together, we will get through this. We will rise above the trauma we suffered through and heal. I have reached out to agencies for assistance, and unfortunately, have not received a reponse as to any immediate assistance that can help keep us together with Draco and avoid being re-traumatized at a place my children experienced horrific torture.

Please consider sharing, adding me on social media @jrdnewbeginning on tik tok, and donating to help us move forward together toward stability. 

‼️Our Horror Story ‼️

2 years ago my children disclosed horrific abuse involving being trafficked by their father for the creation of CSAM. My children reported being survivors of torturous SA, physical and verbal abuse that was being recorded by their father and another toms river family. My children reported the abus began to happen alongside my son’s pre-k friend that met at Silver Bay Elementary School. 

When my children came forward about the horrors they survived, I believed them and immediately took action to ensure their safety. However instead of being seen as a loving and protective mother I was called “mentally unstable” for believing my children and advocating for them. My children and I thought we were on a path to safety and healing when we reported to DCPP & law enforcement. However our family was separated and punished for speaking out.

 I was falsely imprisoned in an involuntary psychiatric unit at the hospital my children’s father worked at for 7 years as a R.N. Every time I reported my children’s disclosures instead of taking a report DCPP & TRPD sent me to PESS. The investigating DCPP caseworker Kimberly Bayha falsely documented in my ex’s favor, called my daughter a liar, made false claims about my daughter’s evaluation report, and advocated for less criminal investigation as her sister in law is the sergeant of the OCPO SVU unit.

When my son felt safe to come forward 2

months after his sister the DCPP caseworker Dawn Graham called PESS on me and attempted to have my son’s forensic interview canceled. After being released as psychiatrically stable & not a treat to self or others… I came home to DCPP ripping my children from my arms in an emergency removal. They treated me as if I was a violent criminal despite there being no imminent risk to my children while in my care. 

My children spent 5 months shifted into 5 different stranger’s homes being further traumatized and abused. My oldest son almost lost his life to the darkness he was subjected to while being removed from his safe parent. They were reunified with me 5 months later in an emergency hearing called forth by DCPP after my 2 emergent hearings were denied, with the last one a week before theirs. 

When my children were reunified with me, we thought we would finally be able to start our new beginning. We were only met with trauma after trauma and barriers hindering our ability to get ahead and move forward. Despite me being repeatedly psychiatrically cleared by mental heslth professionald and doctors.. DCPP sent me for a suprise re-evaluation when my children were finally scheduled for full evaluation and assessment. 

This unfinished evaluation that I did not consent to resulted in DCPP substantiating me as a child abuser for “coaching” my children 4 months after reunifying us. However, DCPP’s actions made no sense as “nothing was changing” in regard to my children residing with me, and DCPP supervisors said, “you're just going to appeal it and win.”.

However there was a change in my ability to work as I was entered into a CARI registry of child abusers. This remains until the appeal is scheduled and substantiation overturned. This prevents me from obtaining employment at an employer such as a daycare or school that would be supportive in my journey as a single mother of 3 struggling with childcare costs. 

On top of that, my children’s needs are higher than ever as a result of complex trauma, night terrors, therapy, and medical appointments. I began doing gig work around my children’s appointments such as door dash, spark, etc until my car broke down, leaving us without transportation and with even more financial strain.

This happened during a time I thought I was going to be able to secure a stable future. Instead we barely survived and scraped by as a result of these agencies protecting a violent criminal over survivors of abuse. I hope to legally overturn the barriers in place against me and one day return to my career helping others as a licensed therapist working with co-occuring severe mental health and addiction. 

Thank you for reading our story and considering helping us to move forward so that one day we can hopefully use our strength and voice to help others who have been in our position. ✨