I need FFS

I am a combat disabled veteran who desperately needs help paying for surgery. I served in the Army and was deployed to Mosul, Iraq for over a year. I have 3 kids that I spend most of my time watching. Finding a job that will fit into my free time that I can do as someone with disabilities has been impossible. 

I started HRT mid-june 2020 and it's been the best decision for me, but it doesn't relieve all of my gender dysphoria.  I had vaginoplasty in November 2021 and again in May 2022. FFS is not covered by my insurance and the doctor wants almost $30k up front to fix my face.

Raising even a fraction of my goal would be completely life-changing. Medically transitioning is incredibly expensive. The VA does not provide or cover any gender affirming surgery. I want a proper shot at life, and I feel like that will not happen without gender confirmation surgery. I have genuinely been trying to make it, but it does not seem that I can without help. Please, I implore anyone who knows me or has been following me on my journey to please donate if you can.