Help Me Rebuild After a Life-Changing Health Crisis

Hi, my name is Stephanie.

This past year has been one of the hardest—and most transformative—of my life. I never imagined I would be in a position where I needed to ask for help, but my family and I are still rebuilding after a serious medical crisis, and any support truly means more than I can express.

In early 2024, I became extremely ill. What started as intense pain quickly turned into months of hospitalizations, unanswered questions, and fear. I was in and out of the hospital repeatedly, including time in the ICU, while doctors struggled to understand what was happening to my body. Eventually, I was diagnosed with porphyria, a rare and serious condition that required extensive medical care, blood transfusions, and long-term treatment.

There are large parts of that time I don’t remember. What I do know is that my health declined so rapidly that my family was told to prepare for the worst. I had to make decisions no one should have to make, including preparing a will, while fighting to stay alive.

I am a single mother of two incredible boys, and being sick meant I could no longer care for them—or myself—the way I always had. During my illness, my children became my caretakers in ways that still break my heart to think about. They helped me walk, bathe, get dressed, and move around when I couldn’t do it on my own. Their strength and love carried me through moments I didn’t think I would survive.

Because of my condition, I was unable to work for several months, which took a significant toll financially. I faced growing medical expenses on top of basic living costs, all while being the sole provider for my family. I was also forced to leave the home I had built in Florida and return to Georgia so I could receive care and family support. While it wasn’t the future I had planned, it was the choice that kept me alive.

Recovery has been slow and far from linear. I’ve had to relearn how to walk safely, regain strength, and rebuild my independence. I am still healing—physically, emotionally, and financially.

I’ve spent most of my life showing up for others. As an immigrant, an advocate, and a community organizer, I’ve dedicated myself to fighting for justice and supporting people who often don’t have anyone to advocate for them. Asking for help does not come naturally to me—but I’m learning that community also means allowing others to show up for you.

This fundraiser is to help my family and me regain stability as we move forward. Donations will go directly toward:

Rent and housing expenses

Utilities (electricity, heating, water)

Ongoing medical costs and care

Food and basic necessities

If you’re able to donate, share, or keep us in your thoughts, please know that it truly makes a difference. No amount is too small, and every bit of support helps lighten the load as we continue to heal.

Thank you for reading my story, for caring, and for being part of my village. I did not survive this alone—and I won’t rebuild alone either.