I need her back!

As he has always threatened, he has taken my child from me.

During our time under one roof, he became cold and manipulaive. He passive aggressivly attacked me and acted like he had done nothing wrong. I was just overreacting, and seemed to have rage issues. Having an argument with this man is like going through a 24 hour police interegation. The breaking point came last June. He yelled at me to believe his lies like I always had, but the vail had been lifted. He lunged towards me and punched the bathroom door, as I shut it to protect myself.  He was escalating and I knew our relationship had to end immedietly. He called me an abuser. A narcissist. I have rage issues. Paranoid. Wrong, always. Well I'm done being gaslit.

My kindness and compassion allowed him to take advantage of me for years. He has sabotaged my attempts to better myself at every turn, just to keep me under his thumb. He held me financially hostage, by only giving me money to pay bills or what I asked for.

He has read everything private I have ever written. I no longer keep a journal, a planner or detailed lists. This makes it harder to manage my life. 

My happineness or independence is a threat to him, because he cannot take care of himself as an adult. He cannot let people know who he truly is. He paints a picture of himself that the public likes but, trust me, it is short lived.

I  am asking for financial help to hire a lawyer. Her  Father's family has a good lawyer and they have manipulated the court into taking my daughter from me; the day after I had an Emergency Protective Order granted. It has been 3 days without her, and I feel like crumbling. 

Now they have ripped my heart from my chest and traumatized both me and my daughter. I need her back. I am so afraid they will try to keep her, and I am broke and alone. 

I know I am in the right, and I know what I would argue. But I am not a lawyer, and I don't know, what I don't know. I can't lose my daughter over paperwork. Please please help me. My daughter is my everything and I am lost without her.

Donations

  • Kevin Kimbrel 
    • $500 
    • 1 mo
  • Anonymous 
    • $20 
    • 1 mo
  • Anonymous 
    • $100 
    • 1 mo
  • Katie Spindle 
    • $25 
    • 1 mo
  • Ashley Breshears 
    • $25 
    • 1 mo

Organizer

Brittany Hayes 
Organizer
Norman, OK
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