Frege Ahmed Adous Memorial

On Saturday January 27, 2018 at 2:30 am I lost my big brother in a car accident. I received the call from a detective of the Fairfax County Police Department. When I was born, my brother was 14 years old at the time. My brother knew the name he wanted to give his little sister, Jasmin, like the princess. He stayed up all night the night I was born, as my mom recalled, and was vigilant like a hawk. He always protected me from the rest of the world. He was there whenever I needed him. I tried to do the same. He made sure I always had a birthday party throughout my childhood. Frege’s first job was working at a restaurant called Generous George’s. Funny because that’s exactly what he was, generous. Always generous.  He never cared too much about money. I wish I had done more for him. He always tried to make sure my mother and I were on good terms, whenever we had an argument. He was always there for our mom.  Going every distance to make her happy. He stepped up when he didn’t have to.   I aspire to be as confident, loving, and funny as he was.  He put the responsibility on himself to act as a father figure when I didn’t have one in my formative years. He taught me what love is. I cannot conjure up the correct words for this.  
Dear Frege,

I have a deep wound that I will carry for the rest of my life. I do however, know that you will be with me and mom in spirit. I will see to it that nobody else ever gets hurt at that crash site.  I asked the officer what I can do to prevent this from happening again and he  told me he’s working with VDOT to construct a guardrail. So many people love you man. I will always be your knucklehead, jfeezy, shawty dowap, your little one. You will always be my big brother. Life will never be the same without you. I really can’t believe your gone brother. You will always be the number one man in my life. I know you will protect mom and I from above.  Please watch over mom when she has surgery in March.  Please enjoy the paradise right now. I love you. ❤️

Family and Friends of the Frege and oithe Ahmed Adous Family,

“In the wake of the Frege's tragic and sudden passing on Saturday , this fund is being set up to help  Frege’s mother with upcoming medical bills. As many of you know Frege's family meant the world to him and he helped his mother with their household bills and finances. She has a surgery pending on March 14th that will be taking her out of work for some time. We would like to reduce her burden in this difficult time as we know that Frege would want her taken care of lets please come together and pick up where he left off.

No one should have to go through what his family is going through right now so we are looking to help take one burden off their plate. Anything you can give will be greatly appreciated by them, even if it is just thoughts and prayers.”

Donations

  • Anonymous 
    • $20 
    • 23 mos
  • Jeff South 
    • $20 
    • 27 mos
  • Saran Toure 
    • $25 
    • 27 mos
  • Luke M. Vaughn 
    • $100 
    • 27 mos
  • Saranya Reghupaty 
    • $20 
    • 27 mos
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Organizer

Jasmin Adous 
Organizer
Springfield, VA
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