Fund My Loves Cont. Fight!

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As salaamu 'alaykum wa Rahmatullaahi wa Barakaatuh

Bismillaah Ar Rahmaan Ar Raheem

The fight is not over!

As you all know, I recently lost my dear wife and best friend to cancer, a battle that started in 2004. She was a believer, a wife and mother of two, May Allaah grant her the highest level of paradise, Aameen. We believed the lie that she could be cured by conventional medicine i.e. Radiation, Chemotherapy, and Surgery. So many trust in the American Medical Association, FDA, and the Big Pharmaceutical that allows many of our loved ones to die while destroying families. The U.S. has the 7th Highest Cancer Rate in the World, “We are higher than we should be, and this is not the type of list you want to be on top of,” says Alice Bender, MS, RD, a nutrition communications manager at the American Institute for Cancer Research (AICR) in Washington, D.C.

It is our intent to consolidate sources of alternative treatments to help those  who have been afflicted gain knowledge on how to fight this killer.

“And We have sent you (O Muhammad 'alayhi salaat was salaam) not but as a mercy for the ‘Alameen (mankind, jinns and all that exists)”.
[al-Anbiyaa’ 21:107]

My wife was one who by the grace and Mercy of Allaah reached out and helped those in need whether they were Muslims or Christians to the best of her ability and we want to continue that effort. We plan to disseminate the information from a few different angles:

- Social media
- Awareness Seminars and conferences
- Interviews and reporting from professional medical sources
- Most importantly we intend to set up ties with proven centers (mainly in Mexico) for treatment for those that are in need of treatment but are unable to pay the pending costs.

In short we want to make a honest effort to allow others the benefit that we did not have when faces with this trial. So with that we pray that Allaah blesses this endeavor so that she can possibly benefit in her grave and those involved can benefit by way of wellness and awareness. Aameen.
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Her Husband,
Bryan Bumphus Sr. (Aboo Mujaahid)
https://www.faakhirah.org/
https://www.facebook.com/Faakhirah.org/

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Who are we?
 I am believer in our creator and the husband of  25 years to my best friend, teacher, and a very courageous woman. I am raising money for the medical bills and quality of life of my best friend. I have cared for her and our 2 children as a sole provider, since I was 23 and I just turned 44. As she has always been smarter than me, she took it upon herself to homeschool both our kids in an attempt to make them productive members of this society (as opposed to entering the rat race), until her cancer took over, but even then she was active as their teacher in basics as well as helping them to become fluent in another language. She also helped others through feeding the hungry and visiting the ailed, working in a women’s shelter for homeless and abused women, sitting and taking care of relatives when they needed it, some even until they passed away.

Our Daughter: She has been monumental in helping her mother through tough times when I could not be there due to work. She has done as her mother before her did with her grandmother as my mother in law is a cancer survivor as well. My daughter has put some of her youth/education on hold to tend to her mother in her 1st and 2nd time beating cancer. She is truly my sidekick in our support system.

Why do we request the help? This money which will equate to a little over a year’s salary for me and would do so much for her momentum towards complete remission.  It will be used for our medical bills (like completing our yearly deductable) and quality of life, the insurance alone, minus emergency visits, specialist, back to back medical visits with copays ranging from 40 to 200 dollars depending on what is needed as well as help keep our one car up in running for her appointments. I make a little over 40 thousand a year and get paid twice a month with close to 3 hundred dollars per pay check (355.81 to be exact) being deducted.

The sooner we get the funds the better as her chemo is not responding as it was and the cancer has metastasized as she is stage 4, which means that the disease has spread to the bones and liver etc. We have high hopes that this will help increase her chances of survival for the long run, with being able to afford more holistic treatments. We have spoken to many facilities that treat this type and stage and they have very high hope for her recovery.

Our Gratitude? We thank you for taking a glimpse into our private lives, and for helping to extend the quality of life and medical treatment of a productive member of our society and one of the greatest human beings I have been blessed to know. I am asking for her as she would never do it for herself. Thank you and May Our Lord Bless you with guidance and good for your help.

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Newsome Bryan 
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Arlington, TX
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