Baby Aubree-Lily Reed-Spargo Memorial Fundraiser

"The Fighting Bluebird"

Hello beautiful people, memorial funds are still needed for the family. Below is the story of...

Aubree-Lily Reed-Spargo and her Father and Mother,

Josh and Hannah.

Thankyou on Aubrey's behalf for looking after her Mummy and Daddy.

~Aubree lived a short life but filled with love and struggle. She was strong, brave and even wise for her time, having in her short weeks learnt to deal with more than most of us ever will have to in our lives and still kept moving forwards.

Born with to much to bare she has left us to do what we can, to help take care of her family these weeks in her Absence, and to spread her message of strength she has to tell.

A Beautiful Bluebird taken too soon has asked YOU.

Please help take care of my parents..

With the prayers of many having fallen to deaf ears people can be here for the parents right now and help them deal with the insurmountable pain of this being done to them. We can make sure they don't have to pay for any of this terror by themselves...

Below is their story.

Jost has asked if you can read the following written by his partner Hannah.

The Story of Aubree, from the love of her mother's point of view..

"24/8/24 - Aubrey Lily is 3 weeks old today, 21 days of our amazing, rainbow baby girl!

For all the heartache and fear we’ve faced since Aubrey was diagnosed with a CHD at 20wks gestation, I’ve treasured every minute of being her mother ❤️‍

Every day our little heart warrior gives me strength, hope, faith, gratitude, beauty and my life is much brighter with her in it. However hard it has been to see her in between surgeries, her heart continues to beat & she continues to breathe for us every day ❤️‍

Every time our eyes meet; I can see she wants to be with us

Every time she squeezes my finger with her little hand; I can feel she wants to stay here

Every time she perks up for her Daddy Joshua King; I know she’s reciprocating his love for her

She’s been through so much in these 3 short weeks, and needs time to recover ❤️‍ but our special girl is certainly worth waiting for ❤️‍"

After another surgery...

25/8/24 - Our little warrior princess has been recovering nicely

For the last 24hrs or so she’s been breathing atmospheric air (no extra oxygen) and making breathing motions by herself with the machine set to 21% ❤️‍

She still has too much fluid (oedema) for her breathing tube to come out today, but the team has discussed her being extubated tomorrow As much as we are desperately wanting her to progress to CPAP so we can have cuddles etc, we will continue to patiently wait for her to be ready to breathe unassisted when the time is right for her ❤️‍❤️‍

Her bedside nurse for this afternoon put a little pink clip in her hair that’s getting longer every day Daddy Joshua King and Mama love our baby girl so much

Turning for the worst...

Please everyone, hope and pray for a miracle for our daughter ❤️‍ I can’t go into it right now, but Aubree needs a miracle ❤️‍ Please

The morning after...

Yesterday was the worst day of my life. I really appreciate everyone reaching out at this time ❤️‍ I’m slowly opening messages…It still doesn’t feel real so readdressing what happened is so painful, but your words are comforting - it really does mean a lot to know so many people care about us and our darling Aubree ❤️‍

I will always be her mother, but right now I don’t know how to be a mother to an Angel and not to my dearest baby girl

Aubree Lily was too beautiful for this world; the most pure and innocent being I have ever had the privilege to meet, and it is an honour to be her mother

Thank you for understanding I need time while we grieve ❤️‍ I’m very lucky to have Liz Reed and Joshua King to pick up the pieces of me every time I fall apart ❤️‍

There is nothing that can make me feel better about what I’ve lost, but I’m so grateful for your words of empathy and offers of support ❤️‍ The glimmer of hope preventing me from crumbling altogether is that; Aubree will send us a sibling so we can pour the love from our broken hearts into them, in honour of her ❤️‍

I know she’s watching us and sending her love to us…her body couldn’t fight anymore and Our Angel had to return to where she was from "

Thankyou for your time reading this.

If there is any donation you can provide towards her memorial, Baby Aubrey would be grateful for her Mummy and Daddy being taken care of when she could not herself any longer.