We're getting married! And then we're getting the heck out of the country!

Paul is looking into going to grad school, and both of us are ready to escape to a more trans-friendly less fascist place for at least the next few years. But this is no small or easy task!

These funds will help us with visa application/permit fees, storage costs, housing applications/deposits, medical exams & health insurance, school, and other relocation expenses. It'll be like our honeymoon, except scary and stressful, and we probably won't come back for a long time! Woohoo! Hope! Despair! Adventure! Hardship!

Please forgive us for fleeing without you - no one deserves to have to live under this unnecessarily cruel and deranged government rule. We will miss you all so so much, and we promise to come back and help out once the worst parts have gone by... We love you.

We are deeply appreciative of any amount you want to put forth towards our escape, and are very aware that the need is great for soooo many all around right now.

If you can't contribute $, we totally get that too - thanks for helping with your friendship and support.