Hey family, it’s Natalie.

Some of you may not know much about what’s been going on in my world, so here’s a brief update:

After 10 years with my husband, Bjorn was born just three days before the COVID-19 lockdown in 2020. Justin and I separated that same year, and after a year of co-parenting under one roof, I was able to move into my own place. Things were stable, and we were navigating co-parenting well.

In September of last year, Bjorn and I moved in with my boyfriend Brad, a “firefighter” (lies) with three kids. I had hopes for a new chapter, possibly even the start of a dream life. But as time went on, it became clear that things weren’t as they seemed. Without diving into the details, the relationship turned out to be unhealthy and unsafe.

On Friday, June 13, I made the decision to leave that situation. Bjorn and I are now in a shelter for up to three weeks—safe, supported, and focused on moving forward.

Right now, I’m doing everything I can to get us into stable housing. I’ve been on housing waitlists since 2021, and while I do receive EI biweekly and have access to some community supports, finding affordable housing in time for Bjorn to start kindergarten in September is proving extremely difficult.

This is where I’m asking for your support.

Over the next few weeks, I need to secure a damage deposit, moving costs, and basics to rebuild our home. I’ve worked hard for years to build an independent life, and while this chapter has brought setbacks, it hasn’t taken away my drive - or my love for my son.

This shelter has offered me a chance to regroup, access therapy, and make long-term plans rooted in healing, stability, and growth. I’ve gained a lot of clarity, especially around breaking cycles that no longer serve me or my child. I know where I’ve come from, and more importantly, I know where I want to go.

If you’re in a position to help - financially, emotionally, or even with something as simple as a coffee or a ride - I’d be deeply grateful. It all matters.

Thank you for reading, for caring, and for standing by us. I’ll keep you updated as we find our footing and move into a better, brighter place. I’ve always been resilient—but having a village behind me makes all the difference.

With love,

Natalie